my wedding was supposed to be 30 days far , suddenly my fiancee and the one that i love made problems all araised due to his mother and other circumstances includin the realtion with my parents too(they love himm all the way so much anyways), then he decided to end this HEADACHE and breakup with me,,,despite of love and many other things he chosed the easy way, without even tellin me !!! hios last call was still full of love although he was nervous .... i m so confused !
2007-03-04 21:59:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be glad you didn't marry him, he can't handle pressure and proved it.
2007-03-04 23:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go then and move on with your life. You are better off this way trust me. Seek counseling and help for how you are feeling and let him go and move on. You will be a better person for it. You cannot make someone want to marry and be with you . If he cannot put you above his family now he never will and it will only lead to unhappiness in your marriage down the road. Trust me it is not worth it. He obviously has chosen them over you already and that is why he broke it off so fast. Think of it this way if when you are married and if you ever have problems in your marriage with him will he stay with you and work it out or will he run home to mom and dad and cry to them about you?
2007-03-05 06:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he walked out do to family issues... then you need to meet and talk you ar not marrying his mom nor is he marrying your family ... on the other hand if he always chooses the easy way out what makes you think that once you married he can cope or be able to deal with hard decisions you may have to make in course of your marriage.
Are you sure you can cope with someone that always runs when the situation gets tough, and nervwrecking ... think about it ...
regards join
2007-03-05 06:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by join_my_world_of_ignore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh! That was really sad!
Maybe your fiancee was just confused or have panic attacks and grab the opportunity (the problems about his mother) to have a little thinking time.
But come to think of it! if he's having second thoughts and not man enough to tell you directly and not stand by you, maybe you're really better off without him! (This is just an opinion)
You're still the one who can discern what is best! Good luck!
2007-03-05 06:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never wanted to marry you, or either wanted something out of this marriage. Then he found a better deal - with the marriage or without.
To get out he pretended to be angry about something, and dumped you.
He is with someone else now. And he calls you and pretends to be "in love" to play games with you and to make it seems as if it is not his fault.
2007-03-05 06:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has chosen to break it off due to others feelings and ways... then be thankful... he was never very committed to you in the first place.
2007-03-05 06:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋