2007-03-04 21:54:00 · 12 answers · asked by hasie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
flirt with him,
2007-03-04 21:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey mate...
First off, regardless of what your heart tells you or how your mind forces you to think, DO NOT obsess with a guy you can never have. There are so many more fish in the sea, so many more guys you can love who actually deserve your love. Do not ever hurt yourself for some guy who will never learn to appreciate you. The signs are the following:
If you are his candidate for a Booty Call and then he doesn't know you during the day.
If he uses you.
If he abuses you.
If he hurts you. For instance, he calls you Fat. He doesn't tease you playfully, he downright treats you like garbage.
If he talks behind your back about you. If he starts rumours about you...
Understand this, guys can really be evil sometimes. Move on if you answered yes to any of the above.
Now that we've got that out of the way, here comes the juicy part. How can you tell if a guy likes you? You like him. You feel it in the gut he likes you back. But you need some substantial proof. I will not go into the types of guys out there, because in the end, there will always be a group of guys who have no niche to fall into. These tips are not foolproof, since human nature is always fickle. So, I suggest you read this and use it as a reference and not your bible.
Strategy ONE
Ask him. He says he likes you. Case closed. You are done. But, fearing rejection, can you even do that? If only things were so simple. I'll tell you this. Just ask him. This will save you a lot of time. If he says no, then you can understand that he doesn't and may not even after knowing you for a bit of time. Therefore, it will be him who regrets later on when he falls for you in return, granted you guys will hang out and stuff... Maybe not, since if he does reject you, it will be too embarassing... So what you can do is this....
"Do you like me?"
"No."
"I knew it! I don't like you either." Haha!
"Do you like me?"
"Yes, as a friend."
"Me too. I was worried because I thought you didn't like me as a friend..." Saved!
If he says he likes you in a way that he likes you likes you and not as friend, then you've just scored yourself your dream guy.
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
Signs that he is a player
He is a smooth talker. He is very comfortable around you.
He places his hands on you with ease.
Every other girl likes him.
Just be careful.
There are many more signs, but anyway, just go with your heart, take care of yourself, and let things happen naturally. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
2007-03-09 00:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey beautiful babe!
i advised you to tell him directly that you like him too,do he like you
too?,if you like him heartly and wish to merry with him.If you wish to love as time pass.please do not play a dangerous game of love.
Secondly if you couldn't know that he is loving too as like as you,
observe that is he looking you again and again?,is he become unhappy , when you be uncomfortable?;is he very careful about you when you be careless?is he try to be in touch with you,your family
members and your friends?is he dare to talk something with you?is he make help you at somanytimes when you don't need any help from him?is he try to smiles towards you,when you are present at any place.if all major answer come in "yes' from your observation,definatly he like you too.
2007-03-06 07:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by vikram sheth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no simple at all..You know boys can flirt with anyone though they have no feelings for you.Only two ways are there for your problem
1) If u are serious then ask him directly whether he likes u or not
2)If u don't want to tell him then wait for him telling you that he likes you...
2007-03-05 06:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u love him. if yes than check weather he loves any one else if not than be getting close to him but be careful of that he will not make stupid thinks. make friendship with him but don't express u r feelings so soon be in touch with him & know about his likes & don'tlikes be litel
2007-03-05 06:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by loveme2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple Just ask to him directly,
just kitting.
Its not so hard to know, if someone likes you then its really very nice feeling.
You just do one thing dont contact him for some days.
If he missed you then it means he really wants to talk to you.
He really likes you.
2007-03-05 06:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
ask him about your life?
e.g. what I wanted from life??
If he answer right what is in your mind then come on that conclusion that he know your fellings and loves you.
trust me I also know someone's felling without she tells me that.
2007-03-05 07:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His body language.
http://www.yourromanceguide.com
2007-03-05 06:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to him if u like him so sincerely get his mobil no talk to him tell him that u like him k then it will work
2007-03-08 05:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u girls allways repeat the same old questions???...just go to ''search'' column and see u ill find 100000 of resolved questions and answers for the same one u ask....over and over..again and again......borin girls...
2007-03-05 05:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by bronson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may be by his facial expressions n his more interest in me.
2007-03-09 05:40:31 · answer #11 · answered by urvashi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋