my bf and i recently broke up beacuse of so many issues,his x coming in the way fonin mi house fone and telling me they are still together and me being an obstacle,also hearing alot about him from my mates.He left me beacuse they wasnt trust between us but the problem is i love him so much and i want it to work out,spoke to him last nite and he told me he still thinks about me but he's scared to get bak with me cause he doesnt wana be hurt.But how can i hurt the man i love??,can u please help me to find the right words to assure him that i wont hurt him and i want it to work out.
Or do y'all reckon he just doesnt want it to work??
2007-03-04 21:22:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i totally love this guy and him leaving me has affected me real bad,i am inlove.
2007-03-04 21:27:10 · update #1
I can't tell you what 2 say!!!.
Just look at him and follow your heart.!
U r the only person how knows him, and you know what 2 truly say.
Open ur heart 2 him.
He will listen 2 u .
Good luck 2 u.
Hope all the best.
2007-03-04 21:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tread carefully.I dont know this guy but I have heard the lines before in my own personal experience.He doesnt want to get hurt is a get out!
He,s keeping his options open with his ex and cant make his mind up by the sounds of things!
All you can do is talk to him and tell him you dont want to hurt him but you dont want to get hurt either and not knowing where you stand hurts,Also ask him about his ex.Tell him that if its her he wants then thats fine but if not then he needs to tell his ex that he doesnt want a relationship with her and they can be on good terms but can never be friends.
Exes being in touch as friends by the way will always lead to more!!!
I wouldnt 100% blame this girl ringing your house.Something must be keeping her holding in there?
Good luck!!
2007-03-05 05:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've said that you're in love with this guy but also that you broke up because there was no trust between you two. You have to work on the trust issues first, or theres simply no future for this relationship.
2007-03-05 05:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by livinfortheweekend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he does not know or is not ready to commit to a relationship, he will use every excuse in the book to let you down gently in case he ever wants you ! the x hanging around will not be helping him or your relationship i think you should ask him if he feels ready for any relationship, you will find your own honest opinion when he can honestly answer this question.
if the answer is no ,remember there are lots of people that do and its his loss, if he is going to hurt you like this whats to work out , find someone who cares about you.
2007-03-05 05:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect. You need to respect yourself and call it quits. If you love a man who has no reespect for you then you might have a low self esteem. Pick yourself up and move on. Find someone you can trust and who will respect you for who you are. Good luck.
2007-03-05 05:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by firelt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋