2007-03-04 21:20:09 · 18 answers · asked by echem 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Follow them.
2007-03-04 21:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by cagsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it out in the open. If the other denies any wrong doing you have a relationship issue that is not be fixable. Bring God into it. Continuing this situation condones the type relationship you chose to have. Not healthy for a good marriage/relationship. If you want less that, accept it for what it is and don't fool yourself. If you want better, lay your cards on the table and see how it plays out.
2007-03-05 07:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust what you feel, I am guessing your instinct is telling you this.Trust it.If your partner is having an affair would you end it or try and work through it ?We tend to think that only bad people have affairs or only people in bad relationships. But no one is immune from an affair.
2007-03-05 05:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by mother hen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was 100% certain that my guy was having an affair, whether or not he denied it, but especially if he denied it, I would be gone. If he denied it, that would tell me he has no remorse.
2007-03-05 05:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, Throw him out,,, My husband had an affair it went on for years but i couldn't catch him, so i bided my time looked for evidence and in the end my patience was rewarded, with a receipt from a shopping centre and he had told me he was in a different part of the country at the time. I got him on a bluff i told him he had been seen with another woman in this shopping centre, he left us 4 years ago we haven't seen him since, And life is great.....why live with lies and deceit its awful isn't it. Your day will come Good Luck to you.
2007-03-05 08:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi... Many people are so quick to lay blame.. I have always found that when speaking about a touchy subject I always start with the word " I" instead of "you"... example.. I feel that something is wrong....... instead of You have been playing up......... From experience if someone plays up in a relationships its because something is lacking... Maybe that could be your for " I" question... Good luck
2007-03-05 05:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Dean W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have proof, even if it means having him followed. Have a record of when where and the persons name. That way if there is a divorce you have all the findings of a one way divorce.
You know the old saying don't get even get everything.
If he's done it once he will eventually do it again.
2007-03-05 05:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep my self respect and walk away laughing! Theres so many decent people out there who wouldnt do that to you.. Even if you have kids its still best to walk so that they dont grow up watching one or both parents disrespecting each other and thinking its acceptable to be unfaithful. Remember they are losing much more than you are because you are honest and respect yourself and others!
2007-03-05 05:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by sazj27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was 100% certain, and he could not admit to it
he would be out of the door.
Only if they can show remorse can you begin to
forgive.
Face him with the facts and tell him what he his -
a cheating LIAR.
2007-03-05 07:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Minxy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are aware, leave them, easy , and very simple. It appears your not the 100% certain you claim, or he/she would not be around, and you would have better questions to ask !
2007-03-05 05:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by david g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋