Iam having a bf,who is doing aprofessional course.he requires more two years to get ajob ,if not a very good then also atleast a starting.so, he can only marry me when he has his job,but then intodays world a girl also should do ajob before marriage so i also need to study more to fulfill my career ambitions,which requires a lot of time.It will be alot of time,may be atleast 3years for me to compleate my studies and then get ajob.again i am doing my M.Com currently,and another1&1/2 yearor 1 year is left after that i may have to study in some other city,ofcourse my bf does not have any problem, he wants me to succeed in my career.overall my parens are not happy with this relationship,but they have agreed for my happiness that when i will do ajob they will marry me off with my bf.I really want & wish my parents also like my bf &happily marry off me with him,i want to see my parents happy,very happy.I am in tention that when i go for study /job will our relatiinship & love be same as now
2007-03-04 21:01:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to take some grammer and communication courses because you are starting to rant. Use paragraphs plz. Your rant got me tense too. Thanks. lol
2007-03-04 21:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, please do not feel bad, you have a lot of work to do with your communication. Please note that everyone round here understood your question, but then, towards the end where you talk about getting a job, thought I'd tell you, how in the world would you work if you are unable to use the language well...anywayz, not for me to judge..perhaps..there may be people who could do without it..and then, ofcourse i am not perfect.
Secondly, your parents have agreed, so whats the problem, that theywill allow if you finish your studies, and your bf too can finish, and then you both find jobs, and prove to them that you are matured enough to carry on with your lives from then on. Then your parents would be happy, your bf and you would be happy, and his parents too would be happy. And then you'll live forever happily......but the catch is when you asked here ''will our relationship and love be the same as of now'', thats where everything wont end so happily after all. You seem to worry a lot if it would be as it is now cos' perhaps you are not confident about your bf, and yourself...so work on that too, study well..and take things from there..
good luck
2007-03-05 05:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never mind, u r in too much unreasonable tension. I don't understand why people feel so much tension in their lives when they have almost all the things in right place, instead of being happy and cool for that. Anyways, I guess, u need to think more on your English communication skill than on impractical speculations of a breach of relationship. Remember, the relationship can break only when either of you two be unfaithful and betray the other. In any case , God forbid, if anyone does that, then the person doesn't deserve the other. In that case the betrayer would never be able to live in peace latter in life. So think more on practical problems than impractical ones.
2007-03-05 05:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First your parents are right,obey them,see one serial running on DD-1 her it is shown how good charming gents deceive girls ,even after so called temple marrige even sell wives ,so you bettter study ,make ur career,double cross check ur BF from some secreat service agencies paying some money ,cross check real motives of ur bf,if he is real true person then after2-3 years u can marry him,if he really loves you,he can definately wait 2-3 years,if ur age is small in 20's.,study,career ,parents if rel loing u first then ur bf.do not jump inharem baby sister
2007-03-05 05:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by niranjaninamdar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
I think, when ur bf gets good job ur parents will be happy to marry u and ur bf... they r just worried of ur future.. so dont worry everything will be alright....
2007-03-05 05:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tejash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you love each other truly your love will never end.
2007-03-05 05:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a true are trash,it is very funny don't be joke
2007-03-06 01:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by namburi s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do acting na?
2007-03-05 22:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Bond "James Bond" 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i,think,this,u,should,do,what,ur,parents,tell,to,do,bcse.they"r,going
to,choose,a,right,person,for,u,and,if,they,r,happy,with,ur,decision,then,u,should,get,marry,to,him
2007-03-05 05:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by simi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no prob.
do wat makes everyone so proud.
2007-03-05 05:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋