I'm confused. One minute you women are saying that love and sex are separate (especially when you are singe). The next minute, you say that if you have sex with others you can't have love in the marriage. So which one is it?
2007-03-04 20:47:44 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-03-04 20:47:58 · update #1
Let me put a dress on so I can answer your question, lol.
You're talking apples and oranges here.
Love involves caring for or identifying with a person; being concerned about their happiness and welfare, not just your own when you're with them.
Sex is physical pleasure, but I've experienced sex both as "just" pleasure with a stranger and as something "deeper" with the one I love.
Your statement,"...you say that if you have sex with others you can't have love in the marriage," hints at cheating, I believe. That's another issue. Some people have the ability to heal and get past that and some do not.
Love and sex can be either separate or combined; I guess it depends upon what you're looking for.
Here's a mind-bender for you.
You can probably buy some pretty good sex from a hooker. There'd be no love in it, but likely some quality physical pleasure.
And, if your sense of love is great enough, you could even marry a former hooker.
2007-03-05 00:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love and sex are separate....but one without the other is no fun.....for men it is easier to have sex sans emotions, women put in their emotions into it though....
2007-03-04 22:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by danny's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situations. Maybe you can clarify..?
2007-03-04 20:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋