gosh are guys still using that line? "if you love me........"
what a bunch of hooey that is!
sex is best saved for marriage, but if you are not going to wait then for god sake use protection. also you don't do anything you don't want to do, or you aren't emotionally comfortable with.
next time he pulls the "if you love me........" routine, just tell him if he respects you he will honor your choice not to do it.
if he doesn't sweetie then you need a new beau.
no means no and no one should try to change your mind!
when i say use protection i dont mean just against pregnancy. you need to use protection against s.t.d. as well..........a condom........every time! and dont ever get talked out of that! talk to a health counsellor at a free clinic or your school nurse......and get some good sound advice!
p.s. as for the comment by THE NEW GUY ............he is ignorant ........... just ignore comments from low lifes like him.
2007-03-12 14:18:52
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answered by Anonymous
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For me, the female psyche is interesting because they are dangerous. If beauty kills, I should have been dead many times by now. I have been figuring that not all women are the same. Obvious example: not all women in the Philippines are virgin like the Queen Elizabeth of Great Britain; they live in different sorts of classes; poor, medium and rich and you see them in different urban environments. Anyway, I don't think this question is targeted at me, because I never been to Ricky Reyes and so you would probably be interested in the other colorful yet soldierly answers. Hawak kamay.
2016-03-29 00:40:03
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answered by Sheila 3
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Yes, I am a woman,but I read my husband the question and he couldn't believe it. So he wants to answer. He believes there is a difference between having sex and making love,and,no,you do not have to do these things if you do not wish to. He says he is just trying to manipulate you. He wants to have the power to get you to do whatever he wants. You show your love for someone outside of the bedroom in tons of ways. If he is trying to get you to do things that you are not ready for,he isn't worth your time. Talk about the oldest line in the book!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 19:16:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Im not a male but would like to answer. Obviously you are uncomfortable with what your bf is asking you to do ... don"t do anything YOUR not comfortable with. When he says it's to 'show your love' , guys say that to get what they want. It's the oldest trick in the book. Tell him to show his love by not ASKING you to do something your not comfortable with. He is showing you no respect and treating you like a ho. Dump him. There are a lot of guys out there who have respect for women and will treat you with the tenderness and love you deserve.
2007-03-10 17:32:44
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answered by Anonymous
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not the riht way to show love but u can definitely enjoy sex in that way and there are many more ways which at first u might finf absurd bu later enjoy the same. So C**** sucking is not bad
2007-03-04 20:46:35
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answered by Sam P 2
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"he tell me is the way i show him i love him and enjoy sex"
Oh please!!! These are just some sex practices that he likes.
Basic rules...No means NO.You don't have to do ANYTHING that your not comfortable with. Don't let him manipulate you into thinking that certain ways to have sex is the only way to show your "love". Makes me think he either has some growing up to do or he can't tell the difference between horny and love or both.
2007-03-04 20:49:49
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answered by Anonymous
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If your boyfriend loves you--he should not be encouraging you to do anything that you are uncomfortable with!
Do not let anyone pressure you into anything you do not want to do!
Sex is only good when you are both happy with the enviornment!
2007-03-10 19:52:52
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answered by destine4_69 4
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Men love his girlfriend suck their c ock, and make love in all pattern, but this is definitely not the way to show that you love him. He is just using that excuse to make you oblige to all his sexual requests.
2007-03-04 21:01:15
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answered by Tan D 7
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He should learn to please you first and makes you enjoyed sex with him until you voluntarily want to do what he likes during lovemaking. If one of you still dont find it enjoyable after some time, you may be sexually incompatible with each other.
2007-03-08 18:47:45
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answered by Anonymous
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im a girl but i cant help but want to answer this-
sucking his that ''thing'' is totally disgusting and dirty.if you don't like the idea of it, DONT DO IT
2007-03-11 17:14:18
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answered by ddeprressedd .- 1
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