my ex ows me 92,000 in child support arrers what happens if he dosent pay..?

Question

I live in anouther state and he lives in ca.He ows 92,000 in arrers,my state has contacted him and sead pay up?I want to know whats going to happen if he dosent pay?He works under the table to avoide paying taxes and child support.I stoped depending on him when I filed devorce but filed for child support any way so hopefully hed win the lottery or some thing and my kids could go to college well that payed off a few years ago he filed workmans comp and we got 10,000.00,he was a little pissed off at me to say the least.He had anouther child with his secound wife even knowing he wasnt suporting his 3.They planed a baby!Sead they desurved happyness!Mean while I worked my butt off supporting 3 kids by myself and my usband now for 10 yrs has steped up and supported them too we didnt have children of our own becouse of supporting my 3 no regrets though i love my babys but now its 17 yrs later and he calls all pissed off becouse he ows 92,000 to me and they sent him a bill(it is kinda funny).

Answer 1

1) you need to contact your caseworker and ask if a tax refund intercept is in place. ask if its been reported on his credit reports. ask if leins have been placed on his bank accounts and properties. ask why he's not in jail.

for that amount, he should be. i cant believe they allowed it to get that high.

you need to write a letter; in it give your contact info, case number, arrears amount, his info, and what are they doing about this? ask them why it got so high.

then take that ONE letter and FAX it:
1) both states Governors
2) both states Attorney Generals
3) both states Regional FEDERAL Child Support Office.

all links for these are below.

you see, phone calls are useless; ignored, denied or forgotten. mail ends up in someones "to do" pile, but FAXING is effective. its proof you sent it and proof it was recieved, therefor, they HAVE to address it. if ever you cant find a fax number (most are listed online) then just call and ask for it.

the Regional Federal Child Support Office fax is listed online (on the right hand side, after you click the state).

if you hear nothing in a week, fax it again... to all of them. fax it weekly if need be. who cares if you miff them off? whats the worst that can happen... he doesnt pay? he doesnt already, and i say you need some serious heat on the case.

after that letter, i would say they will arrest him shortly after. at that point, he sits until he comes up with a chunk of money (not the full amount) from wifey, friend, family... who cares. at that point, they will be watching the case more closely also.

CHILD SUPPORT CALCULATORS
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/calculators.htm
http://www.alllaw.com/calculators/childsupport/
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/child-support-calculators.html

CHILD SUPPORT LAWS
http://www.lectlaw.com/files/fam11.htm

LAWS
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/states.htm
http://www.divorcehq.com/spprtgroups.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/statebystate.htm
http://www.divorcenet.com/states
http://www.divorcesource.com/
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/deadbeat/deadbeat.shtml
http://www.divorcecentral.com/
http://family.findlaw.com/
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/unpaid-support/support-orders-enforcement.html
http://www.divorcehq.com/deadbeat.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/
http://www.divorceinanutshell.com/
http://www.lawchek.com/Library1/_books/domestic/qanda/childsupp.htm
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-laws/state-child-/
http://www.supportguidelines.com/resources.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/links.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/laypersons.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/articles/news.html
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-basics/
http://www.spiesonline.net/deadbeat.shtml
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/index2.html

STATS
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/acesstatistics.html

FINDING DEADBEATS
http://www.wantedposters.com/skiptrace.htm
http://find.intelius.com/search-name.php?ReportType=1&
http://www.discreetdata.com/index.html
http://www.identitycrawler.net/people_search.html
http://www.efindoutthetruth.com/
http://www.peoplefinders.com
http://zabasearch.com/

FED AGENCIES
http://www.ncsea.org/
http://www.nfja.org/index.shtml
http://www.naag.org/issues/issue-consumer.php

REGIONAL FEDERAL CHILD SUPPORT OFFICES
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/oro/regions/acf_regions.html

FACTS AND REGIONAL FEDERAL CS OFFICE INFO
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/fct/fct4.htm
http://www.divorcesource.com/WI/ARTICLES/beaulier11.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/opa/fact_sheets/cse_factsheet.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/index.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/faq.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/passport.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/fop.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/faq/faq.htm
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/extinf.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/grants/grants_cse.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/index.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/region2/index.html
http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://www.govbenefits.gov/govbenefits_en.portal
http://www.fedstats.gov/qf/
http://www.fedworld.gov/gov-links.html
http://fatherhood.hhs.gov/pfs92/ch3.htm

SSI AND CHILD SUPPORT
http://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/policybriefs/pb2004-02.html
http://www.ssa.gov/notices/supplemental-security-income/
http://family.findlaw.com/

FIND YOUR STATE REPS
http://www.usa.gov/
http://www.usa.gov/Agencies/State_and_Territories.shtml
http://www.nga.org
http://www.naag.org/attorneys_general.php

CHILD SUPPORT LIEN NETWORK
(some states work with them)
http://www.childsupportliens.com/

COLLECTORS
http://www.supportkids.com/
http://www.supportcollectors.com/faq.php
http://www.deadbeatdadfinders.com/
http://www.deadbeatdadfinders.com/links.html
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/index2.html
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/deadbeat/deadbeat.shtml

TAX INFO
http://www.taxsites.com/index.htm
http://www.divorceinfo.com/taxes.htm
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc354.html
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc422.html
http://www.irs.gov/faqs/faq4-5.html
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/advocate/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p525/index.html

http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p504/ar02.html#d0e563
http://money.cnn.com/2007/02/14/pf/taxes/do_not_miss_tax_breaks/index.htm?postversion=2007021411

REPORT DEADBEATS
WORKING UNDER THE TABLE
(in writing, to your local and federal IRS offices)
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/compliance/enforcement/article/0,,id=106778,00.html

SEX OFFENDERS
http://www.mapsexoffenders.com/
http://www.scanusa.com/
http://www.nsopr.gov/
http://www.familywatchdog.us/Default.asp

Answer 2

If he works under the table then dob him in for it.

And when he gets a real job, get CSA to garnish his wages.

Keep on the system to follow him up.

It really annoys me when fathers dont pay!

Answer 3

That's his responsibilities. Under the law he has to pay somehow, someway. You are not the only person who was making the baby yourself.

Answer 4

he goes to jail