my wife'sversion that u have act as your girlfriend instructed to u, but i really want to revive the relation with my wife which i bound to live with her from last 13 years. She came in my life by hiding some great fact. If i could able to know about the facts i would not married with her. inspite of that i accommodating with her since 1994.
2007-03-04 20:15:24 · 6 answers · asked by PRATAP S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey maybe she's seen the same type of saree with her maid... give her jewellery and don't try to save money this time. Try till you succeed
2007-03-05 04:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by faizanramball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the Saree that makes your wife angry. May be you need to iron out your relationship with her. It is true that you want to revive the relation with her. The question is whether she is aware of it. You show a very large heart by your ability to accommodate her in spite of the fact that she has hidden some great fact from you. Relationship is all that matters and open frank communication is a must. Can you and your wife find quality time to speak and clear out old hurtsand begin again?
2007-03-05 04:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Tere - educator & professor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called professional jealousy. Any woman can't stand another woman in her husband's life. Whether she is lady friend, or whatever title you give her. Your wife is already insecure because of your strained relationships. Now you give her a saree, saying your ladyfriend told you to give. This is adding fuel to fire. Forget about old things. Forget about the present things. Go on a long holiday. Just the two of you and spend some quality time with each other, thrashing out all your differences. Hope things will work out for you.
2007-03-07 03:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whats is the problem now? the current situation or the one that happened 13yrs ago? get over it. the fact that you brought up something that happened so long ago is probably the real reason of your wifes current discord. you dont let her forget it.
isnt it injustice if a person continues to pay more than once for a mistake? or in your rules they must pay for a lifetime? get a divorce...dont do her any more favors of 'accomodating her. i say she has suffered enough. peace
2007-03-05 04:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now who the hell told you to mention it to her that it was suggested by one of your friends, forget abt the past, there is nothing that you can do abt it. Give her something like jewellery, perfumes etc and plz dont tell her that it was suggested it to you. Some women are very jealous and possesive
2007-03-05 04:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by faiza_t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you urself had mentioned the reason how can u say u were unable to understand
2007-03-05 04:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋