Should new moms get a once monthly girls night?
Ok, my best friend is 24 and her child is now 8 months old. Last month we decided we needed a "girls night" and when she came home she was in a HUGE fight with her boyfriend. He says she chose to have a family and that is where she should be at all times. Her parents agree with this and basically flipped out on her when she told them she had plans for a girls night this weekend. They all seem to believe she gave up her LIFE. What do you think, is a once-a-month girls night out ok? Her boyfriend agreed to let her go after they had the huge last fight but he will not be happy about it. Help please I gotta know is this what everyone believes? I am a mother of two and I see absolutely no problem with this and my boyfriend doesnt mind me going out. Are we not normal or what? Mothers need time to relax and breathe, what good is a cranky stressed out mom ya know? Whats wrong with a couple drinks and a pack of girls having their girl-talk?
2007-03-04 19:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is perfectly okay... Once a month is no problem... The only problem that her boyfriend has is he's jealous and insecure... If he keeps it up, they may split, and when they share custody, there will be more girls' nights out... Trust me I was there...It's not nice for people to control your life...
2007-03-04 19:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see no problem at all
specially if u r celebrating a b day party, but if ur not celebrating anything then "responsable" hubbies might get the wrong thinking, to ease them up, fint people that can talk to him and explain him about having balance in life and taking some break every often it will not only help your stress, but also you will miss your partners more. it also happens when people go traveling far away.
2007-03-04 19:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He just has to realize that he was being mean and selfish, I don't think he saw it. Talk to a guy friend of his and have the guy talk to him so he can realize how good that is for his wife and family. I would definitely support it.
2007-03-04 19:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by 1000 Man Embassy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am from the east
it is surprising for me to find out that in your area boyfriends have started behaving like husbands
do you need to seek permission from boyfriends for girls night?
wats the fun in having bfs instead of hubbys ?
2007-03-04 19:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guys like a night together, i can't see anything wrong with girls going out together to relax and chill
2007-03-04 19:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a great idea, but just don't end up like Britney Spears...
2007-03-04 19:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Reviving Aerith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that 's very normal,give's you a space and refresh yourself,I salute to that....
2007-03-04 19:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Rona V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋