This is an interesting pairing. First and foremost - it's good to see a water sign (Cancer) with an air sign (Gemini). Although it's possible for any sign to match with any sign, it's not often that I come across a Cancer not in a relationship with another water sign.
As a Cancer, your fiancee is ruled by the moon. The moon is the planet of Emotion, Intuition and Home / Family. Cancer's most important need it security. For a Cancer, they find security in home, family and in their relationships. It's not an easy thing for them to trust people right away. They need time to know that they can get the security they need and that you will be as loyal and faithful as they will be in your relationship. When they finally do trust someone, their nurturing and love is bar-none. They are great at counseling and keeping secrets. Cancer's are best sign for relating to human emotions and life.
The problem is that like the moon changes phases, so does their mood. Cancer's are patient people, but if they are not in a good mood - then they are quick to snap. Also, because they are so unselfish, it's hard for them to take time for themselves. This is something they need to do for their own sanity.
As a Gemini, you are ruled by Mercury. Mercury is the planet of Intellect, Communication and Travel. Gemini's never stay in one place too long. They love to travel and try new foods. They are extremely intelligent and expect the same from their lovers. . Like most air signs they are cheerful and have a great sense of humor. They love art in all forms - writing, painting, photography and dramatics.
Gemini's are represented by the twins. One twin is the nice loving, nurturing one and the other is the mean, spiteful, irritable one. With a Gemini - you never know what you are going to get. One day you could wake up and be in a great moody, then in an instant - irritable and rotten. Gemini's do not have a whole lot of patience or much of an attention span - which can lead to infidelity.
Together - Cancer will be able to provide you the love, support and nurturing you need. As well as the intellect and ability to see all sides of the coin. The problems arise when possesive Cancer wants to everything you are doing. As a Gemini - you are independent and have a hard time sitting still, whereas Cancer's are perfectly happy at home. This can lead to boredom...which Gemini's are not fond of. If Cancer can learn to let go and communicate their feelings and you can learn to be happy in one place - you will have a successful relationship.
Gemini's and Taurus don't have easy relationships often. Taurus can be loving, focused and sturdy. However, Taurus requires a LOT of attention. They can be very self centered and manipulative - especially when they don't get what they want. Since Gemini doesn't have a lot of patience and Taurus loves to test and push those patience buttons as well as being stubborn. The key here is relations...perhaps the best thing to do is to communicate.
I am not a counselor but I would say that if you can have a little patience and keep open lines of communication, your relations can improve. It's going to take time...
I hope that this helps....
Good Luck!
2007-03-04 20:59:14
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answered by Jenn R 3
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I am a Cancer woman my ex a Gemini man.
My best advice for you.....
Cancers need a lot of attention and affection, but don't want any slackers. A Cancer woman will take care of you in every aspect and treat you like a King if you fill her emotional, physical, and intellectual desires.
Cancer's are also very emotional, we love hard, we hate hard.
If you can communicate your feelings you will keep her happy. We will try and "guess" what's wrong which usually leads to trouble. SO TALK TALK TALK TALK
I f you can handle all of that, you will have one of the best relationships!
2007-03-05 06:41:04
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-11-27 22:38:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Cancer & Gemini
When Gemini and Cancer come together in a love affair, it may be a rather curious relationship. Sensitive, emotional Cancer has trouble communicating clearly, but clear communication is what defines Gemini. Gemini's chivalrous nature and silver tongue may encourage the Crab to come out of its shell more quickly than usual; Cancer, in turn, can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate the world, which the frenetic Twins hardly ever take time to do. If Gemini seems to ignore Cancer or doesn't provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as Cancer needs, trouble may ensue. These two Signs approach the world in such different manners that they must be able to understand and accept one another's differences.
Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth, while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into the role of Cancer's knight in shining armor; Cancer returns that favor with their characteristic urge to protect the ones they love. Quality of home life is important to Cancer, and Gemini will be spoiled by their Cancer lover's hearty home cooking, soft bed and other creature comforts. Cancer is strongly intuitive and maintains an almost psychic connection with their loved ones, but can tend toward possessiveness and idealization of their Gemini partner. If Gemini just reassures Cancer that they're loved and cherished, all will go smoothly.
Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Cancer is ruled by the Moon (Emotions). Cancer tends to keep their emotions bottled up inside as they have trouble expressing themselves. They envy Geminis their gift of open, clear communication afforded by the influence of Mercury. Gemini, in turn, can benefit from Cancer's intuitive approach, so different from Gemini's bubbly, surface nature; Cancer can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate life instead of passing by the good things in their rush to get to the next new thing.
Gemini is an Air Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. If these two Signs can work together they can be a great team; after all, the best decisions are made by incorporating the emotions and the intellect. The trouble for these two lies in learning to cooperate. They come from such opposite points of view that at times it can seem as if they simply have nothing in common. Deep, emotional Cancer can also sometimes dampen Gemini's airy enthusiasm, and light, fast-paced Gemini can leave Cancer feeling ruffled, even tattered. Balance can be achieved if they learn to talk openly with one another.
Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Signs. Gemini is flexible, willing to go with the flow and follow another's lead; Cancer is an initiator and likes to provide that lead. Gemini may try to lead by being brave, even confrontational; for it to run smoothly between these two, they both need to learn when to back down and let the other lead the way.
What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're allies, they can soar to great heights together. Gemini is always thinking ahead and Cancer is quietly supporting these ideas behind the scenes. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs a fulfilling relationship.
yahoo horosopes, ya could have gone there in 2 seconds to figure it out for yourself instead of cutting us down for answering.
One thing I know for sure, is Cancer and Gemini don't mix well, it's the makings of a rough road, I'm a Gemini and had A Cancer b/f for 8 years, hence, it was tough and now it's over, any horoscope compatibility will pretty much tell you that. Gemini is most compatible with Aries. Gemini and Gemini is great also. Just go to any horoscope place and they will all tell you the same!
------As far as Taurus goes, they are hard to get along with in any case, but what are you doing marrying someone you have difficulty getting along with their child in the first place? That right there will take it's course on your relationship if you don't work on it, like quick! Honestly that's not right.
2007-03-04 19:41:10
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answered by jewels 2
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somehow that is weird to understand,but Taurus would rub you up the wrong way,it's good to have her around,your wife,because cancers bring about a certain form of tranquility.
2007-03-04 19:38:19
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answered by Anonymous
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It doesn't matter if what is the zodiac sign of your partner. The most important is that you love each other.
2007-03-04 19:41:11
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answered by Jenna 3
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i see a failed marriage. not because your signs but because your obviously to immature to make a marriage work if you have to ask people if it will work.
2007-03-04 19:35:50
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answered by job e 2
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Nothing What so ever.. You love her, than marry her!!!
2007-03-04 19:35:22
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answered by rianne 3
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