2007-03-04 18:26:16 · 31 answers · asked by General 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
STOP TELLING HER TO THROW HER MARRIAGE AWAY!!!! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE!!!!!
SOMEBODY SHOULD ACTUALLY TRY TO MAKE THINGS WORK INSTEAD OF WALKING AWAY SO EASILY, THAT'S NOT THE WAY IT IS SUPPOSE TO BE...........
Continue and hopefully you will have a change of heart and fall back in love! Give it time, a year or more. People give up to easily these days that's why there are all these broken homes, step parents, troubled kids, lack of family value & depression. Work on it, it is you that will be destroying this man & family! You need to dig deep and figure out what your personal emptiness is all about & how to fix it. Not ruin everyone elses world! ONCE YOU DO THIS YOU CAN'T GO BACK, THE NEXT MAN MAY MAKE YOU WISH YOU HAD NEVER LEFT AND IT WILL BE TO LATE!!!!!!
2007-03-04 18:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
you cant define love in today or tomorrow. If you love someone initially how can your love disappear suddenly. My first suggestion would be, try and find out why exactly you dont love him anymore. Is the reason really worth leaving him. or u can have heart to heart discussion and you can come out with a solution.
And if you dont love him anymore plz dont hide, by doing that u are not just spoiling your life but also keeping him under a wrong impression that someone loves him.
I mean if you tell him the truth I m sure u both will find ur true love instead of making each others life miserble.
2007-03-04 18:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more info,sometimes when its bad becouse of lifes issues money school work ect you may think you dont love your spouce espechaily when he/she is a sorce of critissium or not supportive.Also those feelings you had when you were first with him the exsightment the pashion the butterflys those change.The changle is to change with eachouther and not appart form eachouther.Love is ever changing.I adore my husband but went threw a time when he pissed me off at every turn.He was grouchy and nit picky at everything and our commuacation was lacking due to it.But we made a comitment to stand by eachouther threw good times and bad.I sugest to serously re/evulate you feelings and pin point where you 2 are lacking then sit him down and tell him with out blameing him why you are un happy in you marrege.If you marred for life when you did get marred and ment it you shuld figuer it and devorce shuldnt be an option or even spoken.Love can be rekendeled if the two of you are willing.If you marred for only the good times mine as well pack it in and relise you will be marred at least 3 times in your life.
2007-03-04 18:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by christine h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you want your future to be. Do you plan to leave him? Then open the discussion. Maybe something gentler than "I don't love you anymore"--more like "This relationship has some problems we ought to talk about." Or do you plan to stay with him, for security or money or just inertia? Then a little benign pretending might be in everyone's best interest.
2007-03-04 18:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some say.....fake it until you make it.
There must be some reason for you losing the feeling of love.
Figure it out, or get some counseling.
Work on spiceing up the romance. You made a life time commmitment. but.......that is not to say that such commitments can't be broken. If things are way beyond compare then it is time to make a change.
I am very pro marriage and commitment. Yet, I am divorced and I needed to do it. Only you know what you need to do.
2007-03-04 18:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely take some time away from him to make sure that is what you are feeling. you never miss what you have until it's gone, and that is so true, and then after that, you are absolutely, without a doubt sure that's what you want, then you should tell him. don't play games with him, you should try to make it work, marriage isn't easy, you should really think about what you're going to do and i hope you make the best decision. good luck
2007-03-04 18:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by bethany j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him the truth of course, just remember to tell the WHOLE TRUTH, that you never loved him in the first place because if you had then you wouldn't need to have this conversation with him.
Worthless bimbo.
2007-03-04 19:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is best to tell him the truth. it wont do you any good to hold it in because eventually you will just not be able to take it anymore and he will find out in a way that hurts him much more. it might hurt him but he will move along slowly. i also think if you have kids, it is still ok to tell him. my parents got divorced and my father continued on. he was hurt for a while but hes married now and fine. as for me an my brother, we are just fine now and jsut as happy as we always have been
2007-03-04 18:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ava 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Love is a call. provide Hannah some years and start up residing along with her you will start to attain love is a call. you should discover what's the main mandatory to you. your infants or a clean woman. That woman will finally end up changing too and he or she would be able to quit treating you besides as she did interior the start.
2016-10-02 10:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Honey...coming from my own experience...do tell him. Its not fair to him or to you. Its going to be painful and maybe even down right ugly. But you need to be honest and get a divorce if that is what you both want. Give yourself and him a chance to start over. Life is too short to live with someone you don't care about. Good luck
2007-03-04 18:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋