after my brokup with me he told the girl he was trying to get with, that he never loved me and was not physically attracted to me. NOW, I can honestly tell you he told me many times How much he was attracted to me and he showed it when we were together. Also, his mother use to tell me I was very beautiful and lets just say I dont have a problem getting a date. I am not vain But the reason I am asking is because he hurt me very badly. I was close to him and his opinion of me mattered. No matter what, I would have never devalued him to be with another guy. Why did he say this. When I confronted him he told me that wasnt true, but if she is a liar why did he continue to be with her? She is the one who told me. Needless to say I severed all ties with him because I dont trust him in any manner anymore. Can someone tell me what or why he said these things about me, I never did anything to him, in fact he broke up with me to be with her. We were together for almost 2 yrs. This girl was once
2007-03-04 18:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
a one night stand. As a result, had his child, but this was before we met. He told me she was a mistake, but then when he saw her with his child he developed strong feelings. Can that be manipulating for a guy? We were together for 2 yrs, they lasted 4 months. They remain friends, but he wants nothing to do with me. I was there for him always. What happened??? Because I was in this relationship and I dont even know.
2007-03-04 18:04:05 · update #1
He only told the other girl these things about you to minimize what you meant to him in her eyes. He wanted to play down his feelings for you in an effort to further win her over. Good move letting him go. I'm sure you're beautiful and taking this way too hard. Don't let his opinion ruin your self image. Blow it off and feel good that you care enough about yourself to not let him be in your life anymore.
2007-03-04 18:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by squealy68 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he hurt you like that.I'm glad you cut ties with him.It could be that seeing his child made him want to get back with the child's mom.But it also could mean she did a paternity suite on him for child support,or something.Since you are better off without him,in time maybe you will trust,and love someone that will return that trust and love.You deserve it.Good Luck.
2007-03-05 02:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT BE LET IT BE!!!!! he's not the only one in this world....Yes u have the right not to trust him,not to talk to him,not to see him,,,hey MIA MIA,, you have a beautiful world out there.ALL THE BEST
2007-03-05 02:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by harry d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SQUEALY68--- Said it BEST for me.
GOOD LUCK DEAR!!
2007-03-05 02:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by NOKIA 6103 By T*MOBILE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋