She was 50 and I was 32. She was like a mom to me. Her family was my family and my family was hers. She often told people I was her real daughter. She had one daughter who is my age and on drugs real badly.She raised her 3 grandchildern till the day she died.I miss her so much. We met a work and we took each other by each others wing.
2007-03-04 17:44:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You never will. You will hurt every time you think of her the rest of your life. Just try to think of the good times that you had together and all of the happiness that you both brought to each other and that might help you through the future.
2007-03-04 17:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Pommac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. It makes it even harder when she was like a mother figure to you. I'm sure. Just try to stay busy. Don't expect the hurt to go away soon, and don' t think you are going crazy if you are still hurting years from now. Death is HARD to cope with. If, after a few months, you feel like you are still grieving and things are not getting easier, consider seeing a counselor. It does not mean you are crazy, it just means that you are human. God bless you!
2007-03-05 01:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Nubian Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never fully get over her. I have had my 8 bff (well atleast i thought) and in 6 years they have all moved. Four to two different continents who I have NO contact with. There is no way to cope with pain like that. Sometimes I get pain out by writing letters to my friends and putting them in a big box. (Like a fake mailbox) It's kind of like a diary...but you can have the feeling that "they" heard you. I know i sound like a creap. But it works..a little. And it is better than nothing.
2007-03-05 01:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I am sorry to know that you have lost your best friend. The solution of your problem is that you should have friend who can understand your feelings.
I am offering my self for your friend ship as I also have almost same story. Look if some thing is common between two they can become good friends. I am confident that I will be your one of the best friend.
Looking for reply
Enjoy Life,
Dr.Mojo
2007-03-05 01:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that but that is life and we have to accept that. I had a similar experience like you whereby she was my nanny and loved her like my mother. She took care of me while i was growing up and later died of liver cancer. I missed her cooking and her being around when i needed her. I do dream of her sometimes and i know she is in heaven looking after me.
2007-03-05 01:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you lost your friend. It's very hard, and with time, you will over come it. However, the hurt will always remain. Learn to let go, and keep busy while you mourn her.
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2007-03-05 01:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy because i'm sure that you don't want your bestfriend to see you hurt.. you don't want to keep her worried wherever she is right now..
everything happens for a reason.. you have to accept it!!
i hope that you'll feel better.. :)
2007-03-05 01:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by the-it-girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋