i am feeling guilty for my hub ,what hapeened last night.................................
2007-03-04 17:14:47 · 12 answers · asked by dhwani a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but i had started liking him n cant even think to talking to himstop
2007-03-04 17:22:42 · update #1
shud i ask him for genuine relationship or just keep quite n let things vanish away i really want his gud company
2007-03-04 17:25:51 · update #2
You are sinning and cheatung your husband which is unfair.Change your self at the earliest and forget your paramour.
2007-03-07 13:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by love all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your previous question, and now this one, once you have gone beyong your boundaries, it can never end in good freindship, it could, if this man genuinely cares for you, and does not want to ruin your marriage and his. You need to look for good company first, within your family, and then in 'un'resolvable circumstances you could perhaps, but that again, not when you are in marriage with a good man, whom you say is good to you and supports you....I doubt if it would stay as good freindship.
No No No. Get away, and pretend this man has vanished, before its too late.
good luck
2007-03-05 01:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that you are married and have a husband but hang out with another guy who wants to have sex with you?! Have you ever watched to movie "When Harry Met Sally?" If this is a real guy, who does not know that you are married, then he will want to have sex with you eventually, and you are leading him on! If he does know that you are married, he deserves to get his butt kicked when your husband finds out and you are being just as bad yourself for leading him on!! Be honest, if there is a problem between you and your husband, either fix it or get divorced before you ruin other peoples' lives and cause a huge pile of problems! To continue this kind of relationship may indicate a mental illness or need to seek concelling for some kind of problem or issue!
2007-03-05 01:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shd stop seeing him. If tht man knows tht you are married and still he is behind you and asking for sex then i think he is just using you ....
If you have not told him you are married and you are having sex with him then you are fooling your husband. STOP it right now nor your marriage will be in disaster.
you can never have just plain friendship with a man after you have already had sex cos it will be very easy for you to end up doing the same later on.
so think again...
2007-03-07 02:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by madhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dekho Dhwani, Last night ko jo bhi hua, usey bhul kar apne rishte par I mean to say apne husband par dhyan do, Kyonki har rishta ek vishwas par tika hota hai, jis din woh vishwas toot gaya uss din har rishta bhi toot jayega. Kisi aur ko dhoka dene mein aur kisi apne ko dhoka dene mein bahot fark hota hai. So just try to forget what you done last night & forget that person too.
2007-03-05 02:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend
i don't think that u want to stop short of sex as he is the person helping u to unwind and relax the way u want.
however, if u still think that way, pl continue.
the final decision about morality is completely yours without ignoring the consequences.
2007-03-05 01:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cannot. You are about to ruin your marriage and bring yourself a whole lot of trouble. Stop this right now.
2007-03-05 01:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try control ursef over it... tell ur fren that u juz want frenship n not more... cherish what u have right now... or u may regret in future...
2007-03-05 01:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you take sex very lightly. Then no harm has actually been done.
It's ok.
2007-03-05 01:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It doesn't work that way.
2007-03-05 01:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋