I find myself geeting all excited when attractive girls talk to me or even look at me and I just melt when they smile. Like my teacher she was so cute and she was so nice to me and I was a nervous wreck anytime I talked with her. I think it has something with me not feeling that good about myself so I guess it gives me some type of boost when attractive girls who are normally shallow is talking to someone who is not so attractive it makes me feel better about myself. But what I want to know is this weird and or basically gay although I like guys and I can never see myself actually dating a girl. Oh and by the way I am a girl.
2007-03-04 17:12:54 · 12 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Been there. Your description here is identical to mine about 9 years ago. No, you're not gay. I believed that lie for awhile and it was miserable. You're right, it has to do with your own insecurity and also a stereotype against pretty girls, assuming they're all bimbo cheerleaders. Don't let this gay idea swim around in your head. Say no to it. It will go away. You like guys, stick with that.
You can be drawn to another girl and it doesn't mean you're gay. It simply means that there is something about her that you like. I finally began to see that my desire for their friendship was the same as my desire for friendship with non-attractive girls, but since I began to believe the gay lie, I thought it was something more with the pretty girls. It wasn't. Think of it like the celebrity factor. If you met a celeb you might get all giddy and act goofy. A "pretty person" can have that same effect if you consider them better than yourself.
2007-03-04 17:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's a thing in the rectum called a g-spot. Both men and woman have it, and it's real turn on for most people. It doesn't mean he's gay, he's just responding to his bodys' natural biology.
2016-03-29 00:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not gay honey!
Take it from a girl.....we always get dressed just so women appreciate us.we look at how women are dressed much more than how we check out men.its normal!
a compliment from awomen is taken more seriously than from a man at times....specially if it has anything to do with looks.
teacher issue is very normal too.always feel good about yourself.confidence is most important.these feeling will slowly fade away and confidence to face the world will take over....work towards that hon!
2007-03-04 17:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a phase, almost everybody gets such feelings. But basically, we are all bisexual to an extent. Otherwise why do you think advertisements are done in the way they are? I mean, it would be more logical to advertise womens' things with men and vice versa (just a theory). The main thing is that you don't have to worry, you are not gay and it will blow over.
2007-03-04 17:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what you are going through is a phaze where you want to be with one sex and date the other as well it is not gay but a gay phaze or more commonly known as being bisexual and i know this because i have a sister that has been bi every since her 18th birthday so it's nothing to be ashamed of or embarassed about it is just something a lot of men and women go through and deal with in their lives and some actually love it once they tried it so it's cool...
2007-03-04 17:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by geostrom b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think u cud have a full emotional, sexual relationship with a girl u are gay. if u dont think so, u cud just need time to figure out how u feel, or u might be bi curious, or just have a differnt way of relating to people ♥ gud luck *smiles*
2007-03-04 17:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just a phase so you'll eventually grow out of it. Try starting friendships with these girls and keep it platonic.
2007-03-04 17:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just going through a phase where your trying to figure out who you are, a lot of puzzle's lay ahead.
I don't think your gay, you just enjoy the feeling of people you don't expect to talk to you, are talking to you.
don't let the answers people here, or anyone you ask persaude you one way or another, it's something you have to decide for yourself.
2007-03-04 17:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You like guys and can't picture yourself with a girl. You're not gay.
2007-03-04 17:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by name game.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just young and have great admiration for your female pears and teachers! I don't think you are gay at all.
2007-03-04 17:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋