My friend spent the night at my house. I thought it would be fun to just kick back with my friend and watch a movie. It was about 2am, she was dying to tell me something, got all antsy bout something she wanted to tell me.
Naturally i wanted to know why when she looks at me and says "you're not as innocent as u seem". now I'm confused. She goes on to tell me she had a threesome with a good friend of hers and the friend's boyfriend. HUH? I asked her was her friend gay, or atleast bi-sexual. She laughed and said "no". What do you make of this conversation? We never talked about it again, but I think my friend was trying to feel me out. You think?
I almost forgot...She invited me to a cookout and didnt even tell me there were going to be most lesbians there. I just wanna know if u think my friend is gay or not.
P. S. She's has a boyfriend that she claims doesn't turn her on.
2007-03-04 17:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by FemFatale 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yea, I think she's gay. I also agree with you she was trying to see if you had any interest in her that way as well.
You had better make your position clear, to save your friendship,
one way or another babe......peace C from Indiana
2007-03-04 17:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Craig B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is sounding you out to see how you feel about gay people, about bi-sexuality and trying to see how you feel about the whole idea of open sex, a bit maybe to shock you, but maybe a bit to just get a true take on who you really are and where you stand. I can't say for sure she is gay, but sounds more like she is bi-sexual, as she does have a boyfriend. He may not turn her on, but she hasn't said that no man has ever turned her on. She does have gay friends, but so do I and I'm straight. Well, I do believe that everyone has the ability to go every which way in a given situation, most of us just lean one way more than the other. It's a hard one, she isn't being very open with you and she is playing a game, and I don't like that. If she is a good friend and you are uncomfortable with the situation, just come out and ask, get the question answered for once and for all.
2007-03-05 01:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be... Maybe she is curious and exploring her options. As far as the cookout goes, she probably didn't think anything of it being mostly lesbians and didn't think there was any reason to "warn" you. She just saw them as friends. Would you have felt the need to have a heads up if the party was full of mostly computer geeks, mostly Buddists, mostly Black people, or mostly hippies? People are people. Not everyone automaticlly throws labels on or categorizes others.
The best way to find out if she is a lesbian or not is to ask her. If she is a close enough friend to you, you should be able to be straight forward and ask her without her being offended.
2007-03-05 01:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is lesbian.. the boyfriend is probably just a cover up because perhaps she doesn't want people to know she is les. and furthermore, it sounds like she wants to have some fun with you sexually judging by her comments..
2007-03-05 01:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes your friend right??????? then it shouldnt really matter if she is or not. if that changes the way u feel about her as a friend, u are not a friend to her.
2007-03-05 03:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by tammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is not a lesbian, just likes to have fun with girls sometimes.
2007-03-05 01:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be experimenting
2007-03-05 01:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋