ok i have this childhood friend and she just up and moved away one day and then called like a few years later and we exchanged phone#'s and addresses and she never wrote then a few more years and she showed up at my door we hung out and she went back home and a few more years went by and she called and the same thing exchanced phone #'s and i wrote her and keep calling and still nothing . Why is she doing this?
2007-03-04 15:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by jonnysgurl25276 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't need her in your life, according to Dr Phil friends aren't meant to be in your life forever, friends are there for our self development and its a fact that most ppl change their close friends every 4 years...and this is normal.
If she was a true friend she would want to be in your life
You dont need her
2007-03-04 16:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by cmitchelle71@yahoo.com.au 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I have the same issue expect I'm the other friend. I moved away my friend and I visited keeped in touch wrote letters called. Then as we got older I felt we changed. She would call I would ignore. I felt that we no longer had anything in common. I got a family see didnt. She lived a college life I didnt. But yet she has always tried to keep in touch. The last time I saw her was 2 years ago and I'm finally going to go and visit again. She suggested maybe emailing each other instead of phone calls. At first I thought no its really not going to work but it has. We've been able to keep in touch a lot better now. Good luck. Let me know.
2007-03-05 00:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your friend gets very wrapped up in her every day life, but NEVER forgets about you. The fact that she continuously runs back to you shows that she does care. She may not even realize that you are feeling "shelved", maybe you guys can exhange e-mail addys (something that is easier to get to at times) and maybe you can find a nice way of letting your friend know how much you love that she keeps in touch with new addresses and phone numbers, but how you'd love to be more apart of her every day life...I bet she never realized she was putting you off. It's really a compliment to you that no matter how much time or miles that comes between you two that your friend keeps coming back. You are loved.
2007-03-05 00:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by eternallegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be busy with her work, family, etc. Don't let it bother you too much. Just get on with your normal life.
2007-03-04 23:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as years goes by, she want to know how old and ugly does you become compare to herself.
2007-03-05 00:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋