I still care about my ex. We broke up because the stess of being together was hard on us (the school we went to would have kicked us out if they found out we were together). But since we've both graduated, we started talking again, and still care for one another. Problem is, she started dating someone else before she left, and now neither of us know what to do. Any advice would be real helpful. Any questions, feel free to email and ask. Thanks.
2007-03-04 15:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by Agent Double EL 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think she started dating him as a rebound, but he's been hitting on her since before she and I got together, and she thought he was creepy then.
2007-03-04 15:46:33 · update #1
I have dated somewhat, it hasn't changed the way I feel.
2007-03-04 15:54:19 · update #2
When the restraining order comes.
2007-03-04 15:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Seoul Brother 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My real advice to you is also date others. It is the most important test you can give yourself. When you are with someone else you'll know whether the separation was good for you. You don't have to try to comment yourself to this person until you know in your heart that this is person who want to spend you life with!
Its your heart that's troubling you, and you're trying to rush it on its own, and you shouldn't. Step back, and give yourself plenty of room to live your daily life. Just go out and date others, and then your heart will give you the answer. Take this matter to Christ.
God Bless
2007-03-04 23:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every situation is different. I just believe that if it was meant to be IT WILL BE. You have to give her time to figure it out. If she really feels that you are more important to her then she'll chose you. Just don't force the situation. Nobody really knows how anyone feels except for the person themselves. If you're willing to wait for her than do just that. If she cares for you and knows better than to make you wait she'll come around. I'm just telling you by experience. If it helps...I'm 27, married, with 2 kids. I've been through alot.....
2007-03-04 23:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by itsonlyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't cheat, b/c that will make the situation worse. Her new b/f may want to fight you. If she really does want to be with you, she'll break it off on her own with her new If not, that's when you should move on.
2007-03-04 23:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Buffy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's dating someone...let her go. Maybe you'll stay friends, maybe not but you need to be open to the idea of dating other girls too.
2007-03-04 23:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
This is NOT the time. Maybe later in the future but today NO.
2007-03-04 23:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she will break up with her significant other for you, don't accept, or else she might do the same thing to you.
2007-03-04 23:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by huffypuffle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never the right time to say goodbye.
2007-03-04 23:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by xkimmimonstarx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋