A mother knows when his son is gay or not?

Question

I dont know but a few months ago my mother told me she caught me seeing porn gay.. but I told her I am gay but never a straight way.. I dont know she told she will accept me.. till now she still asking me why dont I have a gf?.. so I dont know if my mother knows that I am gay or she is ignoring that? I am 19

Answer 1

Sometimes mothers can be very good at not seeing what they don't want to see. On the other hand, some mothers don't confront their children with the fact that they know they are gay because they want their children to be the ones to bring it up when the son or daughter is ready.

Only you can know when it would be a good time to tell your mother that you are gay, because everyone is different, and you know your mother much better than any of us do. However, if you end up making a decision to tell her, you should eventually be direct about it. Again, though, the decision to tell her or not is completely up to you.