I have 3 months of class left but i can't stand half of the people in my class. Half of them are stuck up, I tried talking to them and they don't even want to initiate conversation with me. Then I got in to argument with one of my classmate and stormed out of the classroom. The teacher took half of the class time so she can cansole me, but i really just wanted her to leave me alone and let me be. So now my classmate hates my guts so I had to make new friends in the class. I think other students in my class saw the temperamental side of my personality and are weary of me. I eat alone in lunch b/c it's my choice. I can choose to eat with one girl but i dont want her to think i'm clingy or needy. I feel like everyone hates me, i dunno what to do
2007-03-04 15:19:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hang in there. Sometimes life is hard and that's why is so important to nurture ourselves through difficult times. Most likely everyone in your class has been tempermental in their life too. Your not alone ... be sure to journal about all the good things in your life. You sound pretty smart and I am sure your going to be just fine.
2007-03-04 15:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ruthie, I must say, you sure have high drama going on here. You want to be alone yet you tell everyone on this site about your issues-What happened is nothing that a million people haven't already had occur to them.... it is a tough age, you and your body and mind are changing, these functional problems are temporary to say the least. You are not out of the ordinary at all. You need to maybe check on your anger management skills--but lots of people have done what you have done--can't you just walk up when you see the classmate is free--and say I am sorry---just had a bad day--smile and walk away. Being alone is your choice--but you can't deny that it makes people wonder why---it is not needy and clingy to have lunch with some people--get a grip--it is a lot more questionable to stay solitary in school. better check the old noodle for why you have the desires you have---I don't think anyone can help here--all anyone can say is you just need to rethink all this stuff.And no one remembers the fight---kids could care less---and if someone says what happened--hey, you had a bad day--and that is it. If you have a tempermental side--show a friendly side for a change....you are making this more than what it is,,,just move on, smile, start to enjoy the days---do good in school and have a nice life.
2007-03-04 23:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds tuff...don't close up from that girl...you won't seem needy or clingy if you want to eat with her. As for class, don't worry about friends..your there to learn. Focus on your studdies and then you won't think about it so much
Things will get better, hang in there
2007-03-04 23:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋