my baby daddy doesn't act the same any more i think it is because he has a new girlfriend but since he had found another girlfriend i don't think that i want my baby
2007-03-04 15:11:55 · 17 answers · asked by shakira l 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Give it up for adoption to someone who will love and care for him or her. I would love to adopt from you and my wife would be wonderful to your baby. Email me.
2007-03-04 17:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been practing safe sex then cuz if you don't want the baby now then you didn't want it to begin with. All you where tryin to do was keep a male in your life. I don't know where you been but for years not females have been doing this and ending up single mother with dead beat baby daddies. And its the females fault sure she didn't get preg alone but why put your self in a position that you don't even want to be in any how just to keep some male that obiviously ain't thinkin about you. My best advice is to immedately start looking for great potiental parents to adopt the baby and use some birth control or something not to have this happen again. I'm havin a hard time tryin to let pregnancy happen and you wanna throw away yours, this is crazy.
2007-03-04 16:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Shy Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm biased because I'm a mother and pregnant. It's up to you what you do, but I would honestly go with adoption over abortion...thats a little life in there.
I didn't want my second child and even went to the clinic, had the ultrasound, set up the second appt...and just didn't go. It's not something you want hanging over your head for the rest of your life. Now I'm more excited than ever to see my new baby. Think long and hard and don't worry about that jerk.
2007-03-04 15:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Brendins Mom21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say really consider adoption if you think that is a possibility. You will get a chance to experience pregnancy first hand for future reference, and find a suitable person/couple to raise the child and give him/her a good home. You don't have to worry about expenses because they will pay for that. You will decided what is best for you in time so don't stress out too much about it. Just think it over thoroughly and remember, you don't need a man in your life to be a good mom... and you can always get some child support out of him. :)
2007-03-04 15:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were in your situation, I'd keep the baby anyway. he'll still have to pay child support, so it won't be all on you to support the lil one. plus, it's not the baby's fault. as soon as you see that baby's beautiful face, the dad won't matter anymore. that baby could be your best friend later on. if you decide you can't raise the child, consider adoption--many willing parents will pay for your rent, etc. So you do have some options. Don't put yourself or your little one through an abortion.
2007-03-04 15:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sirius's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I became pregnant and decided that I could not raise him/her I would place the baby for adoption.I am adopted and so are my 2 children- I know it was hard for our birth moms to do that- but it was a sacrifice of love- unselfish- abortion is a selfish way to respond to a pregnancy. There is a sacrifice but the sacrifice is the baby's life. I am so sorry that the baby;s daddy has left you and will not support you. If you can email me, I would like to talk more.
2007-03-05 02:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have my baby and give it to somebody that can't have a baby. The baby would have someone to love him or her. The mother can choose a family to adopt her baby. She can have the visits open. The means the birth mother can see the baby any time she wants. Or you could keep your baby and turn him into the childs support office and make him pay or sign his right over. I wish you the best of luck. If you watch Dr. Phil they have people on there that want to adopt baby or any kind of kids. So check his website out.
2007-03-04 15:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is crazy u shouldn't just want to gave your baby away just because the daddy is being a dumb a**. You need to tell him that he needs to get on his job before the baby comes in step up in be a men. In for the girlfriend she is somebody that is going to come in go but you in your baby gone alwayz be in his life. If I was you I would keep my baby because I had sex with him and got the boy are girl.
2007-03-04 15:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so if he was with you and happy about the whole situation you would want a baby right? If so that is not right.
Having a kid with someone will not hold them to you. If they do not want to be with you then they don't have to be but you should not base your decision upon what he wants or doesn't want.
If you don't want it then have an abortion but don't threaten abortion to him to try to get him back cause that is pitiful.
2007-03-04 15:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are acting very selfish. Just because he has another girlfriend you don't want the baby. That is very immature. You need to woman up and deal with the consequences of your actions. It is not this innocent little babies fault. Grow up.
2007-03-04 15:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How far along are you? Well you may want to consider adoption, because there are many families out there who would love your baby.
2007-03-04 15:17:32 · answer #11 · answered by Erika L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋