I don't know if I can bear life anymore and I want to know if life is even worth it. I was abused by my ex for six years and I don't know why I was such a loser and accepted it. I have a boyfriend now who is too busy for me and I just don't know if I will ever be able to contribute something special to life. I want to make a difference in this world and I want to help less fortunate children. I just feel like such a failure and I have no children of my own and I'm almost 30. I feel like a complete failure!!! Help!!! Does anyone uderstand???
2007-03-04 14:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by jamie kat 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I'm truly sorry for all of the pain you have had to suffer. I am glad you are away from your ex. It sounds like the guy you are with now doesn't understand how much of a treasure you really are. You don't have any children of your own-yet. I was 39 yrs. old when I got pregnant with my child. You are NOT a complete failure. You have gotten off to a rough start, but you've passed one hurdle by breaking off with our abusive ex. You are going to contribute something special in your life, and you are going to help children who are less fortunate. You are NOT any kind of failure. As for your current boyfriend, you can sit down and have a good talk with him about your relationship, and how you need to have more of his time than he has provided so far. You are a success! You have gotten out of an abusive relationship, and you know what you want to do to be of help in society. First, it's your choice, your decision, but if this current boyfriend doesn't give you more of his time, then you can find someone better. As for helping children less fortunate than yourself, is there an organization in you local area that you could consider and ask to volunteer in? Example, Head Start Program, working in a daycare. Working with Red Cross in emergencies, or another organization. Please, also, for yourself, consider, if you haven't already, or it's been a while, see about some counseling for yourself? This would be to hlep you get your thoughts, etc. together to realize how much you are NOT a failure. Especially after having been in an abusive relationship, this would help too. If you haven't been in counseling even for that, it would help you to sort out your feelings, etc., and also help build up your self esteem even higher than it is now. You must have a caring heart, to want to help children that are less fortunate than you. Plus, if I'm wrong, sorry, but maybe you had thought when you were 18 yrs. old or so, that you had all these plans and dreams, and you haven't seen them happen yet, and that's why you feel like you are a failure, when you are not. You will do fine. You have a loving, caring heart. Oh, Yes, God does care-very much. He loves you with tons of love that is unconditional. He loves you as you are, not as you have to be. He knows the desires of your heart, and as you turn to Him more, He will help you see your desires fulfilled. I don't know about your stars, but I do know that the Creator of those stars loves you. Jesus loves you. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-04 14:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are still young don't feel like that. A lot of women nowadays have kids at 30 and up. Look at gwen stefani, she had her first in her mid thirties. And J.Lo hasn't even had any yet. I'm sure you will find someone who can appreciate you just be patient. Some peoples life themes are to be rejected so maybe that is your life path. But u can change that! The stars don't determine whether you are to live or die young, they are to help with personality traits that some people need help understanding. Best wishes!
2007-03-04 15:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hang in there! Honestly... Why dont you get rid of your boyfriend and work on you stay away from men right now and start working on the children who are less fortunate, turn all your strength into that and it will bring you up. You dont need someone around you right now who will bring you down.. Go out buy a spring outfit get made up and go hit the streets and find a way to help people out.
You are worth so much, dont ever let someone tell you diffrent. I have those days where I am like what am I doing here, but I look around at what all is out there and it cheers me up , I look at my kids, my friends, my husband , my life and it wakes me up I need to be here for all of them. Maybe your here to bring that to the less ffortunate?
2007-03-04 14:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you are going through such a rough time, if you want someone to talk to feel free to send me a message or IM me, (((BIG hugs))) I hope things get better for you, I bet you have made a wonderful contribution to the world, you just dont realize it dear
2007-03-04 14:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. And there is none.
You need to take control of your life and accept that you are worthy to live and for happiness.
Your whole life is ahead of you, and when things start looking up, you will know it was all worth it.
In fact you'll be able to appreciate it more because you already know how bad things can feel.
2007-03-04 14:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I suggest that you go to any church and ask for help with your state of mind at present time.There are many volunteer opportunities and social and service organizations that need help and require only a few hours a week.One group I belong to delivers food (canned and perishables)once a week.God loves you,and you will learn to love yourself by giving to others.
2007-03-04 14:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont know anything about horoscopes, but theres no since in giving up. cuz then what do u have to prove? that u failed because u stopped trying. there are plenty of people out there to help mend ur heart, but the only one that should matter is you. do u like ur job? maybe try something new. get out. meet people. let ur mind be free.
2007-03-04 14:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by annie 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you're very misinformed as to the unique, or might want to I say quite particular, placement of the earth contained in the galaxy. you do not have any clue each and each of the advantageous tuning that become performed to this planet.
2016-11-27 22:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just paranoid. Get over yourself
2007-03-04 16:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋