i wanna be more popular but i dont know how.
im pretty and i have lots of friends, but its not enough.
what should i do?
i have one best friend and shes a popular girl
but i just cant seem to fit in with her popular friends.
what should i do?
2007-03-04 13:53:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So this isn't the answer you are looking for, but seriously the best thing you can do now is give up on being popular it is not worth it, the friends you make if you are popular usually aren't real friends. Just focus on making or building the relationships you already have so that when you leave school you will still have those strong friendships. Being popular is very superficial, don't go down that road.
2007-03-04 14:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by f_jayce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you already have lots of friends you don't need to worry.
Why do you feel the need to have the 'right' friends?
You are very lucky as you are .... some people have no friends at all !!!
Be happy as you are. If you try and change and mix things up and make friends with people you are not naturally in with now you might have some problems fitting in and then you would be even more discontent ... you cant force friendships!
Good luck!
2007-03-08 21:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have lots of friends then you are popular. they like you for who you are and not cuz your 'cool'.Popular
(a.) Adapted to the means of the common people; possessed or obtainable by the many; hence, cheap; common; ordinary; inferior; as, popular prices; popular amusements.
(a.) Beloved or approved by the people; pleasing to people in general, or to many people; as, a popular preacher; a popular law; a popular administration.
(a.) Devoted to the common people; studious of the favor of the populace.
(a.) Of or pertaining to the common people, or to the whole body of the people, as distinguished from a select portion; as, the popular voice; popular elections.
(a.) Prevailing among the people; epidemic; as, a popular disease.
(a.) Suitable to common people; easy to be comprehended; not abstruse; familiar; plain.
*(a.) Very annoying person in any were from grades 6-12 that make you so embarresd you wish you were dead.
if you wanna be one of those 'fake' people then i wouldnt go there all that will lead you to is disapiontment.
*I added the last one
2007-03-04 22:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.To be popular isnt all its cracked up to be (trust me), and it shouldnt mean all that much. Ive found that i am more "popular" when i am myself and dont try to fit in because people can tell im being genuine.
2007-03-04 21:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Live ♥ Laugh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop trying so hard to be popular, it's not all it's cracked up to be. In 5 years (which is a ridiculously short amount of time, you'll see...) it won't matter to ANYONE who you were in your school days.
2007-03-04 21:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Leah~Ariana is due Oct. 09~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest that you go sit at the table with the geekest kids in school. hear their stories about how they get treated by the "popular" kids.
maybe then you won't want to fit in so much.
think about it....
do you really want to be another "one"
make a difference in somebody's life. talk to the shy boy the corner who wears glasses.
be who you are inside, and you'll be loved for it
2007-03-04 22:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the best is to just be yourself... you're just making a fool out of yourself tryin to be popular.. just be normal and excel in whatever you are doing right now.. try this piece of advise and i hope that it works.. trust me because i am very popular in my school..
good luck!!
2007-03-04 22:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by davE D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid these thinking
2007-03-04 21:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋