What do you do when your bestfriend just asked you on msn if you trust her, and she spent pretty much the whole weekend with your boyfriend...do you think something might have happend between them? she told me she'd tell me tomorrow...but now im kinda paranoid...did she happen to do 'things' with my boyfriend??? Or am i just being a bad friend cause i dont know if i trust her...
2007-03-04 13:49:23 · 10 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We all usually hang out, my boyfriend, me, my bestfriend and my other friend. And I was at my aunt's house all weekend, and I think they went to my friends house to hang out...
2007-03-04 14:17:51 · update #1
you aren't being a bad friend. you just need to talk to her, face to face and settle things out. talk to your boyfriend also. let her know how you feel. if she is a true friend she will tell you the truth and understand how you feel.
2007-03-04 13:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Hilary 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need 2 figure out if it's him and her that you dont trust or what. Cause if you dont trust him then honey u got problems. Your friend on the other hand might be of some help. Maybe he told her some things that she thinks that you oughtta know or maybe nothing happened and she wants you to see her face when she tells you that so you will feel that trust or maybe they did do something. I wouldnt trust he after that but I would give her a slap on the back for being woman enought to tell you to your face.
2007-03-04 21:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by miarwo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all why is she spending the weekend with your boyfriend. I find that a little bit disturbing. Then, she will tell you tomorrow obviously something happened or someone tried. You are not a bad friend because anyone would be suspicious after all that. Give them the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise but if I were you I would listen to her and then ask him and see if their stories match up.
2007-03-04 21:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by joayle78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
has your best friend or boyfriend ever lied to you?
You know it might seem wrong to question things but you have that right.
I know for a fact that my best friend would never do a thing with my boyfriend and my boyfriend wouldnt with her either. They hate eachother.
Why did they spend the weekend together? Where were you?
personally I wouldnt want my boyfriend spending time with my best friend. I dont know why they would need to, ya know?
Unless your a big group of friends and your always together anyway you know? Then it'd be more accurate they'd hang out but if the only time they hang is with you not there, then question that.
GOOD LUCK WITH THAT.
2007-03-04 22:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by Omission is betrayel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think she asked you that question because she wanted to make sure that you know that some of what you hear might not make sense but since you are friends then you will understand that this was not true.
in other words if any other woman who is not your best friend had said that to you, what would you think?
but
since this is your best friend then she is trying to make sure you will not think in a bad way. i woulde be careful. women friends are nt very trust worthy when it comes to men and boyfriends. sorry that is just my own opinion
2007-03-04 22:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by DD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both human. Humans make mistakes or bad decisions sometimes. But if they both love and respect you they had no business being alone in the first place. Therefore anything could have happened. Now it's their little/big secret.
2007-03-04 21:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by mrsdeanslist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one in life, Don't trust anyone! Especially your best friend with your boyfriend. Ever watch Jerry Springer, heII, ever watch Oprah?
2007-03-04 21:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have asked you that because she wanted to make sure that you weren't uncomfortable with the situation. She may have been seeking reassurance from you by doing that.
2007-03-04 21:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by PlanJam.com 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt trust her . i would want answers now and i would ask him whats up with him being with her
2007-03-04 21:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by dan m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were in ur situation then i wuld think the same thing but b4 u get mad at her or anything u shuld wait to c wut she has to tell u and if it duznt answer ur question then ask her and if she is a good frend she will tell u and y was she with ur boyfrend anyway???!?!?!?!?
2007-03-04 22:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋