I recently heard that the hollywood actress Scarlett Johannson let a male friend touch her breasts, because he was gay.
So on this note, despite the fact that I'm straight, can I act myself as being gay & then ask my lady friends to let me touch their breasts too?
Seriously, why this double standard here?
2007-03-04 13:26:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
May be she thinks that that touching won't be sexually motivated. As if a kid touches body of a person, feeling is totally different. However, that could her thought. Other woman don't have to defend her.
You should ask this question to Scarlett Johannson, not woman in general. Nether other woman should try to defend her
2007-03-04 17:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not a double standard- it's Scarlett Johannson and it's Hollywood- anything goes.
I think most women wouldn't let a guy- gay or not- touch her breasts unless he was a boyfriend, husband or doctor.
2007-03-04 23:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by kia78 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Umm I can definatly agree that it is a double standard, however she is probably just saying that was the reasoning because she was ridiculed about letting a guy friend do that. Trust me whether a guy was gay or not and touch my breast and I wasn't in a physical relationship with him he would walk a way a very wounded man.
2007-03-05 09:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by ctjones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you may be on to something. If you can endure ridicule from guys(or the general public) that you "pack fudge" so to speak, you may have reinvented the wheel. The only problem is that how do you close "the deal" with a girl if she thinks that you are gay??
Once you figure that one out let me know, because we have a Nobel prize with your name on it.
By the way....I guess that I'd fake being gay if I knew I could squeeze Scarlett Johannson's sweet, sweet jugs!!!!!
2007-03-07 04:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Pray 4 Mojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Chuck,
Did you know that women have the right to decide who touches (or does not touch) their breasts? They don't have to give any reason to justify it. There's no double standard.
Sure, you can ask your "lady friends" if you can touch their breasts. You can pretend that you're gay, if you want to.
However, it's THEIR decision - and if they're smart, they'll tell you to bugger off.
2007-03-05 04:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by stormsinger1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suppose you could pretend to be gay, and that would work, provided the women friends didn't know you very well. The women who let gay guys feel them up is because they don't feel any threat from them, it's almost along the same lines as letting a child touch your breast to find out what it feels like. To a kid, they'd probably look like big blobs, kinda squishy lookin and you just gotta poke it to see if it jiggles like it looks like it will.
And if the guy is a true gay, I can't see the opportunity arising much.
You sound jealous. Are you one of those guys who says that if he had a womans body he'd spend all day in the mirror feeling him(her?)self up....but I gotta tell ya. I've got one, and my girlfriends have one, and my daughters have one...and we don't ever feel the urge to do that!! Nice try. I guess no one's told you that the adult "santa claus" clause that has all women having pillow fights in lingerie if they crash at each others house....sucker!!! LOL
I wonder why no women have ever said, or at least none that I've heard of anyway, declaring if they had a penis they'd stay home and jerk off all the time. Strange eh??? :) :)
2007-03-04 17:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
i think some women think of it as one of their girl friends touching their breasts. although.... i can't say id really want any of my friends that are girls touching my breasts though. lol
i once had a gay friend in high school that loved to try to touch my boobs... it was weird. i mean, if you don't like boobs, why do you need to touch them so much, and regardless their my boobs and i can only let who i want to touch them touch them.
it is a stupid double standard, gay men are men too and i wouldn't let just any man touch my boobs, i can't really say why she would. attention maybe???
2007-03-07 16:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Curious Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why pretending?
Just be a good decent man and get a g/f...
then u can do all the touching u want without offending anyone and obsessing over other women's standards...
2007-03-04 18:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Luv Thy Neighbour! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't undersatnd why she would let him do it just cuz he's gay. I wouldn't allow any man except my hubby or if i was single a b/f touch mine.....I hate those kinda double standards.
2007-03-04 13:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by mrs_b40 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hollywood people are not the ones that I set my standards by, for touching or anything else.
Good luck.
2007-03-04 14:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Croa 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋