I have three friends, but two of them both h8 one of them.
What should I do?
2007-03-04 13:23:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have three friends, alex,corey,and andrew.The problem is Corey and Andrew hate alex, what should I do?
2007-03-04 13:25:19 · update #1
(they hate alex because they said he's annoying, but he's my bf...)
2007-03-04 14:51:52 · update #2
(thank you for the advice)
2007-03-04 14:52:55 · update #3
Find out why, if there is no reason that they hate him, or they are just shallow, find a way around it, when you are around Alex, maybe Corey and Andrew shouldn't be there, when you around the other 2, Alex shouldn't be there, or maybe you can just try sitting down, and talking.
2007-03-04 13:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the other 2 deside for you . Your feelings for your friends should lead you to do what's right for you .I know you feel polled in 2 directions . Think about how you feel about all 3 . If you want to keep all 3 then don't let then poll you away from any one . If you want to lose 2 or 1 of them then do so . Don't talk about any of them when their not present . If the others talk about the 3ed one tell them you don't want to discuss your friend behind his back & you won't talk about them behind their backs .
Talking behind some ones back is unkind & can lose all 3
I've been there & it's hard , I'll pray for you .
God Bless :-)
2007-03-04 21:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWW im so srry!
Tell both of them tht u r both there friends and hoo ever is ur true friend will say "srry" or something
Depends on the age-
in elemantary skool adn some of middle skool, this soloution happens a lot (im in 6th grade first yeaer of middle skool)
Leave it alone and they usually make up or get bord and forget it
2007-03-04 21:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. I went through that too. I just spent separate time with the friends who didn't like eachother. Hang out with all three of them, just not at the same time anymore.
2007-03-04 21:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by fishcantswim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Friends equally with all three. If they cannot get along or see eye to eye, they must resolve this for themselves.
2007-03-08 21:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem. well two of them hate the other one but wut i did was went with the one who i treated me the best cuz the other two r just tryin to b popular i mean not popular off of me but i mean they dont hang out with me that much bcuz they hang out with popular ppl and so the other one hangs out with me and the others always try to get me mad at the one. well hoped this helped but all u have to do is stick mostly with the one who is nicest to u! and u can still b frends with the others but b better frends with the one u like the most!!!o and the other two wont even come to my bday party cuz the other one is gonna b there!! dont u think that is selfish?!?!?!?!
2007-03-04 21:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should tell all the haters to come over at some place and don't tell them that the others are coming. and try to resolve the issue.
2007-03-04 21:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by loveable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to get in the middle of it, if possible and try to tell all of them to get along, for your sake.
2007-03-04 21:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋