yes Ive been with my gf for 16 long a-- yeras now, Ive never messed around on her.but for the last couple of years shes been acusing me of seeing other women,it has got so bad We have not had sex in the last Two months over it.what can or should i do I care a;lot for her but i just can't go much longer without some Pie thank you
2007-03-04 13:19:14 · 8 answers · asked by rpoker 6 in Politics & Government ➔ Government
if you have been together for 16 $%^& years and are not married -- i say it's time to end the torture and either step up and ask her for her hand in marriage to show her how serious you are about her -- or break it off.
16 yrs is too long to be playing BF and GF
2007-03-04 13:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by curious_One 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
16 yrs. thats a long time to be together and not get married!
umm...is there a reason why u havent married or what? Maybe that's her
problem! Myabe She wants commitment! What do you want! You care for her but do u truly love her! If not you need to reconsider things! I mean dont keep her hangin on you for another 16 if ya dont love her! I mean ur goin to end up doin more harm than good! I mean either way it's tough!
For getttin the pie! lol...I suggest gettin her some flowers, take her out for dinner, be romantic, that will surely get ya some pie...lol
well hope all works out for ya
take care!
Have a good night!
If the dinner and flowers dont get ya pie, u could always resort to alcohol..lol
thats always a winner...lol
2007-03-06 22:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by woohooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is pissed at you for not popping the question. I assume that if you two have been together since you were 18, you two are probably 34 now. She might want to have kids, and at around that age (35-40) a woman's fertility levels drop, and with you taking your sweet time asking THE question, she might not never be able to have kids, if she is the kind of woman who wants to wait until she is married before she has kids.
Or it could be that she thinks that you don't care by the fact that you have YET to ask her to marry you, what are you waiting for???????
2007-03-04 21:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by I<!771X/-\+26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't you married, then, if you'd been together for 16 years? If you're referring to them as "long a s s years," perhaps she's figured out just how unhappy you are and have been for a long time. And how come you're posting this in the "government" section?
2007-03-04 21:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people "normalize" their own behavior. We all assume that we're normal, that the rest of mankind is just like us... that's why liars don't trust anyone, why honest people seem to be the most gullible.
Maybe she's been cheating and therefore assumes that the rest of the world (including you) cheats.
Another possible reason is that she wants out (you HAVE been together for 16 years!), and this is her way of trying to drive you off.
2007-03-04 21:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a romantic relationship is built on trust. if you've tried everything to convince her that you are not guilty of infidelity; perhaps it's time to seriously discuss breaking off the relationship. she may also be trying to subtly tell you she:
a. wants a marriage commitment or
b. wants out of the relationship
i suggest you and she have a long, serious conversation. both of you lay your feelings on the table to try to come to a resolution.
best of luck. i dated a girl for 8 years before we went our separate ways. it hurts, but there is life after a breakup.
atp
2007-03-07 19:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 years is a long time to not commit to marriage. Maybe if you ask her she'll forget about the "other women" stuff and you'll live happily ever after. :)
2007-03-04 21:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with her , try to take her out on dates a Lil more , ask her how she feel , communication is alway good .
2007-03-04 21:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by keekee123 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋