I did last night. I was with the girl I'm seeing now, and I stupidly went into the part of town where my ex-boyfriend lives. This is the first time I've seen him since I came out as a lesbian and broke up with him. He definitely looked hurt and even stunned... I was just walking down the street with my new sweetie, hand in and hand, and then all of a sudden I see my ex with his buddies. I could have sworn he glared at her.
I also think I heard his buddies laughing and making some kind of jokes/comments about him 'turning me gay' or something as they walked off into the distance.
This is one part of coming out as lesbian I never expected--people's perceptions of me changing just because they now know that I'm lesbian.
Anyway, it was soooo awkward to see my ex bf and I hope it never happens again!
2007-03-04 12:24:41 · 4 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, but I feel your pain :)) I've only had one bf I was with for 3 months when I was about 13. I wonder if he'd even recognised me! If he saw me with a girl it might explain why I never seemed into the whole cuddly kissey thing with him though lol.
2007-03-04 12:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by helehelo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. actually, I knew I was lesbian before I ever got involved with anyone. I'm a "gold star" lesbian (The L Word fans would get that). I do have an ex that won't leave me alone sometimes, but she has issues.....
2007-03-04 13:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yes it was horrible i saw my ex everyday we worked together i actually had to quit my job to get away it wasnt like he was mean or anything it was just that i couldnt haddle seeing him noing the things he had said about my now girlfriend
2007-03-05 03:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by getcuriouswithgeorge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! It happened to me once. I got him t o join us for some fun. He enjoyed every minute.
2007-03-04 12:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by carol r 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋