ok you see evryone calls me a goth just because i dress in black. everyone looks up to me wich is good but calls me goth are they jealous? i also lost my friends, but not over this, ok i went for this girl that i knew since kindergarten and my other bff i also knew since kindergarten i ditched kathryn (the secon one) for the first one i noticed that i made a bad choice and kathryn wont be my friend anymore please help me!
2007-03-04 12:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her how you feel if she doesn't understand then she isn't a real friend.
2007-03-04 12:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by PrincessC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If im understanding this correctly, your being made fun of for wearing all black, and you made a pass at a friend who didnt like it and now another friend won't talk to you becuase of this?
I must tell you that you need more self esteem and just ignore them and know that your better, chances are half of them are going to be pregnant and druged up by age 16! just try not to be one of them, I say this not to be mean but because its true. I'm 20 and I went through the same thing, the hardest thing to do is ignore them but if you get upset or anything you will just be feuling their fire.... If I could go back knowing what I know now I would have just let them say what they want and just did what I want so I could be happy, one day you will learn the same.
2007-03-04 20:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF EVERYONE LOOKS UP TO YOU THEN WHY DID YOU LOSE YOUR FRIENDS? THAT DOES NOT MAKE SENSE. WHY DO YOU THINK THAT PEOPLE ARE JEALOUS BECAUSE YOUR GOTH........WHICH BY THE WAY IF YOU DRESS IN ALL BLACK THEN YOU ARE GOTH. I DON'T THINK PEOPLE ARE JEALOUS.I THINK YOU ARE JUST CONFUSED AND MAYBE IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO TAKE A STEP BACK AND EVALUATE WHO YOU ARE AND WHO YOU WANT TO BE. WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY "I WENT FOR THIS GIRL"? I WOULDNT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND IF YOU DITCHED ME...CAN YOU BLAME KATHRYN?
2007-03-04 20:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you grow up (& I hope that one day you will) NONE of this stuff in your question will amount to even a grain of sand.
Just concentrate on your studies in school. When you start to live your own life, the friends you have now won't be more than a distant memory. However, what ever you take away from your education will last you you for your entire life.
2007-03-04 20:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang com. You just ditched him!? Well that was like telling him don't wanna see you anymore. Well one way (the christen way) is to say I'm sorry and can you forgive me. Live in the light and do good. He coulda been mistaking of how you hanlded it. Well if all fails, let him go. Just let him go. I can give you a list of songs that can help you out.
2007-03-04 20:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I like that old saying, "As you sow, so shall you also reap..." meaning that whatever you plant you will sooner or later gain whatever grows... Instead of beating yourself up over and over, use this as a "lesson learned" and THINK AHEAD next time! We all make mistakes in school, I myself once had everyone in my entire class and most of the kids in the grades above and below mine so mad at me that they wouldn't speak to me... try that on for size! LOL I survived it somehow... If someone doesn't like you just as you are, then you have to figure that it is THEIR loss, not yours!
2007-03-04 20:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by buckaroo_57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wear black that doesnt mean that u r goth, tell ur friend that u made a bad choice and maybe she will forgive u
2007-03-04 20:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by StarvinMarvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is your deal?!?! Never dump a friend unless thier really bad. U probably got dumped b-cuz you did something. Well in my opinion your messed up.
2007-03-04 20:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch this girl and go talk to kathryin, tell her how u feel.
but if u ditched her b4 cuz she wasnt a good friend, so u can always make new friends.
2007-03-04 21:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by srtá.girly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first problem, just start wearing bright colors and for the second problem just let Katheryn no that u care about her!!!
2007-03-04 20:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋