when u have sex with a guy for the first time does it hurt
2007-03-04 11:59:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not for the guy. You may have some pain, but it all depends on how you are prepared for this important time in your life.
Hopefully your partner will be patient, and make sure you are aroused enough before doing the deed. I suggest you take command, and only allow this to happen when you are ready. If you are on top, you can control the situation much better.
Are you sure you are ready for this emotionally? This is a precious gift you are giving to your partner. Make sure he deserves it.
2007-03-04 12:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bare B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like it hurt the first time your rode your bike and fell, or missed a mat cheer leading, or tripped skipping rope, first time's kind of suck some times, your virginity is a gift, it should be for someone special it is painful to give away in more ways than physical pain, the physical pain is temporary, it this isn't done at the right time the psychological pain can last a life time. So what I am trying to say is Yes it Hurts, but not if this is something you want this person to have, make sense. Be careful
2007-03-07 16:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, mostly because of not being able to relax. But then it gets better. It still hurts a little, but it's a different kind of feeling. I don't mean that you get loose like a dishrag hoe, but you do learn to relax alot more and enjoy it a whole lot more.
2007-03-04 20:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by phxguy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it does!!!!!! but it's a goooooooood hurt if you're wanting it. Trust me, if you want it bad enough, the hurt goes away very soon and what comes next will keep your legs up in the air for a long time to come. lol
2007-03-04 20:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by AJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only during the first couple of movements. It doesnt hurt, it is just a little stinging. The size of the penis is what determines the pain really.
2007-03-04 20:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by marenkakittytea3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you get pregnant then it sure will hurt a lot, plus think about the STD"S out there. Don't let anyone pressure you into anything you're not ready for or it sure will hurt.
2007-03-04 20:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh yea. r u a guy? if so it'll hurt a lot more because your part doesn't stretch as much as female parts do. But it also depends if you have used anything, like dildo's and stuff. If you're used to it, than it doesn't really hurt.
2007-03-04 20:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it does usually hurt, but if you allow yourself to relax after he first sticks it in you should be allright. Instead of him immediately sticking it in and thrusting up and down on your booty allow yourself to feel his manhood and after you get use to then let the thrusting begin.
2007-03-04 20:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i had sex the first time it hurt like hell ( i actually cried). everyone's different though.
2007-03-04 20:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by melissa 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes but later you get over your broken heart and become a sl*t.
2007-03-04 20:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by stevemxusa 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋