alright Ive just about had it. I moved here three years ago and was best best friends with this one girl. now this year she is not even paying attention to me and saying anything to me and hanging out with this other girl and became all "EMO" and we really get along fine. The other girl is taking her away from me!!!! and I always feel left out and like i've got no friends!!! help??? what should i do???
2007-03-04 11:45:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she also swears alot and so does the girl she hangs around with. I mean not that I don't but i'm just saying. all she ever does is talk about how bad life is not that its great but its annoying. and said she wanted to kill herself and that god is a ***** and that hell is heaven and heaven is hell and life is hell and everything sux. god I can't take it any longer. Her attitude is taking on to me
2007-03-04 11:53:55 · update #1
she also talks about how much she wants to go to hell and would rather be in hell then live
2007-03-04 12:06:38 · update #2
Whatever you do, don't act jealous or upset merely because she has another friend who is taking up some of her time. That will only push her away. You go ahead and make other friends to fill up some of your time. You both need more than one friend anyway.
If she makes plans with you and outright cancels to hang out with the other friend, I'd probably keep my distance and let her enjoy her friendship with the other girl while it lasts. Just want to mention that a good friend isn't necessarily someone who will always be around. We get older and more mature and we find different interests and we drift apart, then, when we can, we get back together now and then.
2007-03-04 11:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Genuine friends stick with each other thru thick and thin. it seems like you friend is ditching you for some other EMO as well. She has found her style. I suggest you to take the initiative to talk to her how hurt you feel. You'd cherish the friendship and couldnt see it go down the drain. If your friend is still stuckup, you should move on. Learn who your friends are.
2007-03-04 11:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being emo is the lamest and dumbest fad ever. its even worse than the pet rock fad. so don't feel like youre losing anything important. be happy that you have a clean slate and can actually find friends of some intelligence.
2007-03-04 11:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by superfly_jdizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being too clingy? Maybe you need to setttle for just being a best friend instead of a best best friend. Talk to her and if it doesn't get better, move on.
2007-03-04 11:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what's up with her being all emo and not liking you and stuff.
then if she says crappy stuff consider the fact that you don't need her and she's not a good friend in the first place.
2007-03-04 11:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, and find another friend. this so called "friend" of yours doesn't sound like she was ever your friend to begin with because in my opinion, real friends don't just up and decide they don't want to be friends with you anymore. just stop talking to her altogether, and find some other friends. you don't need a friend like that anyway.
2007-03-04 11:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find new friends, and talk to her with out the other girl there and see what is really up with her.
2007-03-04 12:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by LoVeLY LaURa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find new friends to make and not be friends with these friends that you have now.
2007-03-04 11:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them both. and find some new cool friends! just start talking to people and sooner or later BOOM! u got friends! :)
2007-03-04 11:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become Emo. Its all a phase
2007-03-04 11:49:50 · answer #10 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋