I have problems, I can't achieve orgasms during sex....help !
2007-03-04 11:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by Bunnie in Canada 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Quite a large majority of women do not have orgasms from intercourse alone. Most women require clitoral stimulation. Given that, I am always amazed at the number of women that ask this same question. If you can have an orgasm by yourself, you can have an orgasm during sex. Just get on top, reach down and stimulate your clitoris. I prefer reverse cowgirl for that because it’s easier to maneuver. Of course it would be gentlemanly of your partner to do this for you, but if he's otherwise engaged there is absolutely nothing to stop you from taking matters into your own hands, so to speak. Don’t be shy, your guy will enjoy the show.
Also, oral helps A LOT. If your man gets you “warmed up”, you’re a lot more likely to get fireworks during the main event.
Talk to your partner. If he’s not at least trying to push your buttons, he needs a firm nudge in the right direction.
2007-03-04 15:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, it's kinda sad because i had never had a real orgasm untill after i had my son. I achieved it by being on top. stimulating the clitoris is the best way.. That is a big factor in an orgasm...
2007-03-04 11:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by lil_guicho216 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you need to learn how to have an orgasm by yourself. Take a nice quiet evening to yourself and explore your body. You will eventually figure out what works best for you. Then you can share your results with your man.
2007-03-04 11:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by aqx99 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its all betweet the ears and being on top helps.
2007-03-04 11:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Grogan 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My girlfriend is the wettest when it's in her butt. I'm just saying.
2007-03-04 13:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
WITH ME!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
2007-03-04 15:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by nobody 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋