i have had a lot of drama in my life lately, involving drama, gossip, and things like that.
and i really wish i could not care about what people say about me, but it's hard..
i need some tips to help me get over all of this.. it really has gotten my down...
2007-03-04 11:30:48 · 7 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont really know what to say i just stoped caring completly! if someone whats to talk $H!t then let them there the ones that are missing out by not getting to know you!
2007-03-04 11:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Reaper G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi I'm Rolando Eugenio president of the Saint Mary's University (Philippines) Teen Center and I had just opened my yahoo answer account and this was the first question showed... actually there are so many aspects if why are people doing this,. it is either it is only what they want to do, you know as a leisure a bad leisure talking about someones life without thinking what may be the consequences are, and one more is that it is,ahmm, let just conclude it is something traditional as it became a tradition to talk about of someones life and to gossip about things they are not pretty sure of.. and your situation is one of them...
but then as i always tell to those who asked me same questions let them be tired of doing this until they will figure out what are their mistakes..secondly prove them wrong don't let them always conclude that as if something is really true.... show them what is the truth behind those accusations..
by the way if this things stil dont work for you feel free to send me e-mail/s so I could help you still, so that we could verify if what our advice are doing so...and if you still have some question/s here is my e-mail address for you to drop on (coment are also accepted):
bladymair_paul_707@yahoo.com.ph
hope to recieve you message if there are something you still want to clear or clarify
2007-03-04 19:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rolando Jr. E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember! everyone has their own opinion so trying to be OK with everyone is impossible! Just don't get into that CRAP and be yourself. Gossip is a waste of time and brain space. the worst thing for ppl to think of you as is an untrustworthy slut
2007-03-04 19:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie Turner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I know it sucks when that happens...sooner or later things will turn out okay, so just act cool and act like they arent even there. They will get tired of you...and that is a good thing.
2007-03-04 20:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep thinking i'm almost outta this drama driven place then i can go to college where i'll be accepted for who i am and i won't have to deal with this BS anymore....HS is dumb when it comes to drama and dating and different things, i was extactic when i left.
2007-03-04 19:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not pay attention to what other kids are saying about you because than they will start picking on another kid.
2007-03-04 19:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tory to be nice to them and try to ingore them
2007-03-04 19:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋