2007-03-04 11:30:27 · 14 answers · asked by Divina Nicole 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Being a straight male, I have no idea about the intensity of discovering a new (Or an already existing but dormant) lifestyle. But I can imagine that it must be a situation which draws on your mental strength. To come to grips with such a reality must be pretty tough. I can only imagine the trials and tribulations of people who have to "make up their minds" about this issue within themselves. My thought and prayers are with those who are faced with this task.
I would only say this, "take your time." Don't rush into making up your mind. It could just be a phase your are going through, or a passing fad perhaps, or perhaps even a period of just plain and simple confusion. Don't declare yourself to be anything, until you are 100% certain. Only you can know for certain when it happens to you.
I am sure that the sudden discovery, about ones possible Bi-sexuality, falls into this gray area and therefore it should be dealt accordingly.
2007-03-05 00:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a difference between confused and bisexual. Bisexuals are attracted to both male and female. Why must a person be an extreme? Why limit yourself to one thing?
Love is love, no matter who the gender. So whether you love a boy or a girl or both doesn't even matter. It is the person themself that you love, not their gender.
2007-03-04 20:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by toxicPoison 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have nothing against bisexuals, but I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with one. My ex turned out to be bisexual and I wouldn’t go down that road again. Some of the nicest people on this site are bisexual and like gays they also didn’t have a choice about their sexuality.
2007-03-04 20:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by MrCute 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
umm...being bisexual doesn't mean that you are confused and you cant make up your mind btween straight or queer, it means that you like both men and women.
Sometimes when people first realize that they are gay they keep going our with people of the opposite sex, because it's all new to them and they dont know what to expect. for some people, bisexuality is a step from straight to realizing that you're gay. but not for everyone, many of them are really bi.
2007-03-04 22:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are people who are truly bisexual. Really!
I identified briefly as bisexual before I came out as a lesbian. I guess it was mainly for myself... I was afraid at first to admit I was solely attracted to women, so I sorta eased into it >:)
But still, not everyone's like that! There are people who are genuinely attracted to both males and females.
2007-03-04 19:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rissa 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do u have a problem or something?? I am bi and I have had a girlfriend for a year now,but I am attracted to BOTH sexes.What do u mean,make up your mind?? You have no idea what you are talking about!!!!!!!!!! What's up with being close minded?? Post that sweetie!!!!!!
2007-03-04 19:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
understanding and accepting that oneself is bisexual is indeed making up their mind, after what was probably a very confusing and complex process..
2007-03-04 19:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
What comes easily to you may not be so easy for someone else.
Do not criticize another until you walk a mile in her shoes.
2007-03-04 19:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by not yet 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
What's up with Heterosexual Conservatism? Be unique and think for yourself for a change. Hell just be yourself ... whatever that may be.
2007-03-04 19:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by AJD 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why limit themselves? If someone can get it goin for both genders, good for them.
2007-03-04 19:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by Syck 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋