Ok, i just turned in the decree for my husband and i divorce. it will soon be final. we do still live together and thats because he's helping me drive out of state soon. any ways we get along fine. now thing is he has an old friend from the military that has always liked me. my soon ex husband and this friend talk maybe once a month if that. Well his friend says that he wants to be my friend and do more. i am for that. i don't want a relationship with the guy i just want sex. it's been LONG time since i've had sex, because my husband cheated 5 times and it's hard for me to have sex with him. so would i be wrong for having sex with the friend. I barely know him only the couple times we've seen each other and we've talked on the phone once or twice.
2007-03-04 11:02:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont think it is wrong, go for it, its not like there brothers and your not going to end up in a serious relationship anyways. At least you waited for a divorce...
2007-03-04 11:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i would like to say that two wrongs do not make a right! However, you have mentioned that your divorce will soon be final. From what i can sugest to you (being a guy) is to look for someone with whom you can see yourself in a long-term relationship and possibly a future husband.
If you do sleep with this guy to satisfy yourself, not only will this be wrong but if you do it once, you can do it twice, thrice, with one guy or many and it will start a chain-reaction where you would think it is morally acceptable to do so. Seriously, our society is in need of some serious help.
If you are really desperate, there are other ways to satisfy your sexual needs which involve no one but yourself.
2007-03-04 19:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a ho (unless you've been sleeping around), but both of you would be kinda sleazy. don't have sex with your ex's best friend; since you just want sex, get yourself a toy or some toys and keep some batteries. that way you know you won't be subject to picking up some std. you'd only be sleeping with your ex's best friend to try to get back at your ex for is cheating ways and revenge is always bittersweet.
get yourself together as you move on from your married state in life to your single state. you don't need to complicate your mind or things by bringing another man into your picture until you've had a chance to clear your mind, clear your emotions and settle down.
2007-03-04 19:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by loving 40+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.It's not wrong at all,if anything your husbands a ho for cheating on you 5 times.
2007-03-04 19:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love your honesty, hey your an adult so is he if you - and he are OK with it and your up front with this guy that... for now your not interested in a relationship but miss sex and find him attractive, go for it.
Good Luck
2007-03-04 19:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by cream city chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want some sort of revenge...stay clear from the friend. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-03-04 19:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not be a ho. You're not running around and sleeping with multiple guys. Have fun!
2007-03-04 19:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLUT!!!! thats breakign a major man rule....a ***** never sleeps with an ex boyfriends or husbands friend.....that is a big slut....have fun
2007-03-04 19:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by marc g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have that ring on your finger no more so go have some fun and be safe and wear a condom okay! Want to get over your man get underneath another one.........."PREACH"
2007-03-04 19:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with taht
i enjoy sex without marriage
2007-03-04 19:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋