Lately, I have been feeling worthless, useless,.....kind of like I have no purpose. I don't enjoy any hobbies, i couldnt even begin to think of something that would interest me, honestly.......usually , i am very happy with my life. I am 23, happily married, just built a brand new house....i AM successful, however...it feels like something huge is missing......am I ready for a family?...would a child fill this void?...or is this just a phase?....im so confused and down in the dumps...however its not depression....i have been depressed before......just in need some advice! howdo i shake this empty feeling?
2007-03-04 10:57:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe everything is just going so well for you right now that in your subconscious you're waiting for something bad to happen. Sometimes people just aren't happy unless they have something to worry about & your life sounds pretty good.
If you think you are ready for a family then maybe that is the missing piece to the puzzle for you.
2007-03-04 11:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're feeling down now DON'T go and create a family until you have figured out why you're feeling like this. Talk to your doctor and try to figure out what's causing it. Starting a family can only add stress and bring you down. Try writing a journal, talk to your spouse, and don't be afraid to ask for help in feeling better. Good luck!
2007-03-04 19:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by mary_mathewes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people get the winter blues just before spring. My advice is to plan a garden. Buy your seeds and start them indoors. Begin all your preperations for spring and you will grow along with your seeds.
2007-03-04 19:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by bennyrude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋