I am dating my girlfriend for long term relationship. I will eventually marry her if our relationship has gone serious enough. I am 24 years old. We've been dating for at least 1 year. I'm in love with her. We never gone pass kissing because I want to save it for until marriage. My girlfriend wants me to go pass kissing but I want to save it until marriage. I care about her so much and love her. Will this destory my relationship?
2007-03-04 10:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
most people will tell you that you're sweet to wait til you're married and all that crap. the truth is if she's pushing it, it means that she wants to find out how you handle yourself in the bedroom. if you don't perform then she'll think to herself that she can't be with someone that can't please her physically. what's the big deal about waiting anyway? you have to know if you're compatible in every aspect of your relationship before you can truly love someone. what if you get married and she sucks in bed. now you're stuck with a loser in the bedroom. just some thoughts, don't rush into anything too quickly, but don't just sit on the bench and watch the game go by either. good luck
2007-03-04 10:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by MalGal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she loves you, she'll understand that this important to you. Usually, its the other way around and the guy can't wait, its very refreshing to see there are still guys out there like you. You might want to compromise and try a little heavy petting and save full intercourse for the wedding...that might take some of the edge off.
2007-03-04 18:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sue P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if it is meant to be. However, the best thing you can do is to not worry about whether it might damage things. By worrying about something not yet come to pass you only increase the chances of them occurring. Live in the moment and all will happen when it is meant to.
2007-03-04 18:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Taliesin Pen Beirdd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go you! That's awesome! Trust me sex before marriage can ruin the relationship very fast. And no still means no even if you are a guy. She should respect your wishes and if she loves you she will be willing to wait even if it is hard.
2007-03-04 18:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's rare that a guy wants to wait until marriage. I would wait if that's what you want to do. It is important to wait. That way you can both share a special night together on your wedding night.
2007-03-04 18:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...youve gone from being 14 to 30 to 24 and according to your other questions your 14 year old girl friend is pregnant by you so there must be some sex going one you stupid lair. get outta here perv!
2007-03-04 19:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she really loves you then she will wait....and do what you want to do, but mayve she thinks that ya'll should do more things than kiss because she loves you very much.
2007-03-04 18:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW and again I say WOW!!! I didn't' know guy's like you existed any more. I say stick to your guns on this one. If she really loves you it will be worth it. I think you are amazing. And your girl should respect your decisions. I think it will work out just great for you.
2007-03-04 18:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you then she will wait for you, good on you for saving yourself until then...
2007-03-04 18:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and I applaud you for this. It's far better to wait, and if she truly loves you, she'll respect your decision on this.
2007-03-04 18:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋