I was going out with a boy named Zachary, and I was madly in love with him. We broke up after I found out he cheated on me. I still loved him, but then a week later my friend was going out with him. This crushed me...she still doesn't know I didn't like this what should I do?
2007-03-04 10:30:09 · 17 answers · asked by Hoodie Hood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should probably talk to your friend. Explain to her how you feel. Also talk to Zachary he should know what's going on between you and your friend and he is involved in the situation. If she is a true friend she should understand. Hope this helped. =]
2007-03-04 10:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with everyone - if she knew how you felt about this boy, she should have had the basic decency to at least tell you that he had asked her out and how you were about it. She is not your friend. You should let her know that Zachary cheated on you, and you hope he does the same to you.
Leave them alone and allow her to do the right thing. Find some other friends, and a cuter boy :-)
2007-03-04 18:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Testaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should not have gone out with him after you...that's the "golden rule" so to speak. You don't have your friends left overs, EVEN if you think the two of you would be a good match. I would just tell her that your feelings were hurt behind this, and it's just not cool. If you're true friends, a boy will not come between you two. Go eat some ice-cream :)
2007-03-04 18:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by thatprettykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
I have been in the same situation.My best friend also
did the same thing. Not just one but two of them. I know
how you think you love him an he is your world. But the only thing I can say is time heals all wounds.
I know this will hurt but if someone does this to you there is no trust and if there is no trust there is no relationship.
You deserve someone who will love you for who you are.
Remember another thing from an old lady fate repays itself. How ever much this guy hurt you he will in some
way get hurt as bad as he hurt you.
2007-03-04 19:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bonnie B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the friend was your best friend she would tell you. its ordinary for friends to like the same guy and sometimes it happens. but if you broke up with the guy because he was cheating on you for your friend he was still kind of cheating on your friend or the other girl too. so your friend and you should realize he cheated and any guy that cheats is stupid . tell your friend how you and maybe she will realize he cheated why go out with a guy that cheats.
2007-03-04 18:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by xo24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have smacked that_____ mmm ya...well if she doesnt know the friend rules: don't go out with your friends Ex's...Then yeah, i would totally confront her of it. Ask her why shed do that to you, and get the reasoning out. She probably does know, cause every chick knows when there friends r lyin bout something bothering them..shes just happy you havent said ne thing....go for it and speak up!
2007-03-04 18:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by !London Force! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the extent of your friendship with that girl...if you are really good friends I think you should let her know what is going on...you really can't be mad at her for it if she didn't know...I mean don't come of as the jealous one and make things worse for yourself. If she isn't such a good friend then to be really honest I wouldn't even bother with it. Fact being he was a jerk and did what he did...if he can move on that quick, so can you.
2007-03-04 18:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Carlos C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this friend of yours. If she is not considerate enough to atleast hear your feelings out...and even if she did hear you out and she still went out him... she is a backstabber..and she had eyes on your boy even when you were out him.
You don't need this idiot guy or this so-called friend. You know you have better things to do in your life. MOVE ON... and tell them they're FIRED ...
2007-03-04 18:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by atomicimage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel and find out if they'll invite you to their backyard in the bushes for a threesome. Make sure you don't get any thorns stuck in you and make sure the lesbian action is just as good as the heterosexual action. oh, and GET IT ON TAYPE AND SEND ME A COPY OF THAT MOTHER
2007-03-04 18:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her? That could help. Explain to her that you still have feelings for him and she moved in on him too fast.
2007-03-04 18:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋