Ok so you have this friend that mved to a diffrent "school" district and she has other friends yes i understand that she is going to have new friends but she is toalty forgeting about me. She is ingoring me, never calls or messages me, and get this when I call her she hangs up when she figures out its me. And so I talk to her sister and she tells me everything. She said that if she answers the phone and its me to tell me that she is not there. And so much more. I dont under stand! what do I do!!!!
2007-03-04 10:23:39 · 11 answers · asked by Airhead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh yah we have been friends science !st grade and im not ready to let her go.
2007-03-04 10:34:42 · update #1
Forget her, if she doesn't see what a good person you really are, then she doesn't deserve a good friend like you.
2007-03-04 10:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friends are the one's that are there for you through the hard times and good times. Someone you can lean on in your time of needs, or someone to share special memories with. A friend should always have your back and be there for you...It sounds like this "so called friend" of yours, is no longer there for you and you should consider giving her some space. If she come's around, that's great and if she doesn't, then you know she's not really a friend. Sounds like her sister is a better friend. I'm sure there are other people out there in your area, that would love to take her place! Hang in there!
2007-03-12 05:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is "growing up." Some people grow up worse than others, and she may not realize just how much she is hurting you. Have you told her that you really, really just want to continue your friendship because she means a lot to you? I, for one, noticed the "not ready to let her go" bit...and I understand. Lifelong friends are nearly impossible to toss away. Since it sounds like you have a pretty good relationship with her sister, ask her to talk to your friend about the pain she is causing you, and ask her why she is being like this. I hate to say it, and I know that it isn't what you want to hear, but a friendship, just like any other relationship, takes two. If she wants to back out, there may be nothing left for you to do. I hope this all works out for you.
2007-03-12 08:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This nearly always happens, it's happened to me, but unlike other people, I don't really care. But they do call every now and again and we have a nice chat. Why don't you call her less than you used to, because since you're not in the same school you might often find that you don't have much to talk about, but if you call after a long time, you may have a lot to tell each other.
2007-03-04 10:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she became a snob at her new school. Maybe you should try to concentrate on the friends at your school. Some times people just grow apart. And it sounds like your friend has already moved on.
2007-03-04 10:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just got told this by my friend. He told me "be nice to people an tehy will be my friends," and I said "well what if they are mean to me?" then he said " well then they are not really your friends"
just forget about her.
I'm moving to a different school district and if i treated my old friends like that i would want them to forget about me.
2007-03-04 10:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Spongers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It obvious she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. You might want to ask her sister why she doesn't. But friends like that aren't really friends, if I were you I'd make some new ones.
2007-03-04 10:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sue P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then forget her she is worth your friendship! maybe the sister is. try doing things with the sister if she starts saying things about you then you can just put this one in her place
2007-03-04 10:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on with your life,find new friends,hey! you probably have plenty of friends who have been waiting for this moment in time, to move up to be your next best friend.
2007-03-04 10:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..... be ready to let go...for it seems she has no longer
interest in maintaining your friendship, and she has let go
already.
2007-03-11 19:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋