im gay and i told my bestfriend.she a girl and she told me that shes been likin me 2 n a half years.wat do i do to make her understand we wont work out?
2007-03-04 10:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by bestfriend 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you have to get it across to her that you will never change your sexuality....tell her that you want the best for her, someone who will love her, treat her well, and someone she can be with for a long time. Unfortunately if she still has a deep crush on you, she may be in denial...you might have to let the friendship cool for awhile and give her time alone to let it all in. goodluck
2007-03-04 13:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gently sit her down and tell her that adding anything sexual to the relationship will make you both uncomfortable and more than likely ruin a best-friendship that has lasted so long and gone so deep. tell her that if you start pursuing something more, you will lose the friendship you have and you so do not want that to happen.
2007-03-04 18:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by rebelchikrocker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should find someone u like, whos a boy, and tell her.
2007-03-04 18:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by im confused! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
explain to her that you are gay.. not bisexual.. ask her to help you find a boyfriend.. that should make it clear to her!
2007-03-04 18:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
explain it to her , she most likely thinks you are playing hard to get
2007-03-04 18:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
wowww... soooooooo hard for you..!!! tell her that,, ım sorry, but you r my best freind... ı cant go out with u... please understand me... u r beautiful but ı cant look at you from so sight...
2007-03-05 04:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like dick. End. Of. Story.
2007-03-04 18:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
And your making me sick........YUK !
2007-03-04 18:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋