Am I alone?

Question

I will be 15 in afew months and I never had a girlfriend(I am not gay or a nerd...I am just different)I wonder if I can ever succeed in life..can someone help me?

Answer 1

You're only 15, not 50!!! jeez you have your whole life ahead of you for girlfriends!! You'll meet the right girl one day - usually when you least expect it!

Answer 2

Young man you have a while, don't rush it a girl will come along. You sound as if you think you are in your 20's or 30's. You're still a child. A girl will come. Also if a girl doesn't come it could be that you are just very shy, and need a long time to wait until you're ready to adjust to going out to get a girlfriend

Answer 3

There's no need to rush just because everyone else is doing it. This may sound lame, but just wait until your ready, and it would be much more special for you. Of course you can succeed in life, don't be silly. There are LOADS of people like you, so you're not "alone", and there is nothing wrong with you. Just have patience.

Answer 4

I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 17. People just blossom at different times. You're still young, you have plenty of time to get a girlfriend. As for succeeding, that depends on how far you'd like to go. If you just sit around waiting for opportunity to knock on your door, it is likely that it will never happen. You have to get out there and meet girls and be your wonderful self, then things will happen naturally. Only YOU can make things happen for yourself!!

Answer 5

You certainly can and are able to succeed in life and in anything else you choose to. I do not feel that we are predispositioned to become anything other than what we put our minds to beome. Being only 15 there is plenty of time to find a gf wife. Keep working at your goals and as you accomplish tme, extablish new goals and work on them. A GF wife can be a future goal as well as others. Good luck

Answer 6

OMG you're only 15. Don't start your life (and you're just starting your life) by forming the habit of validating who you are on whether or not you have someone in your life. Get involved with your friends, school activities, your community, start focusing on preparing yourself for college. All of these thing will mold you into the person that you are meant to be. And when you're true to yourself and happy with yourself, you will find the person (when it's time for them in your life) that will care about and love you for you.

Answer 7

Hon you are so young. I was in your shoes at your age and I am 39 and believe, things do change as you get older. Don't base the rest of your life on where you are right now. Try to concentrate on the positive things in your life and your studies. They will help get your farther than you realize later on.

Answer 8

Of course you can love, you have your whole life to look forward to don't give up yet! My mum always said to me there's someone out there for everyone, my parents were on opposite sides of the globe and they still met, if it's mean't then it will come. You will be a sucess just have faith in yourself :)

Answer 9

i'm almost 15 too, and i've had a boyfriend or two. i'm not really nerdy, people accuse me of being GOTH, but i just like black and dark colors. i've learned from experience that you don't need to have a boyfriend to succeed. just learn all you can, and BE SMART. learn as much as your brain can handle. get into good classes.

good luck and best wishes.

Answer 10

try to be positive about things. try to find someone who has similar tastes to you, and just start talking to them. i think everyone can succeed in life if they just accept being theirself and doing their best. you'll get their in the end. you are very young yet.