I mean i'm a very tactile person a touchy feely person, but guys think you are coming onto them sexually if you are this way inclined.... should i change the way i am with them?
2007-03-04 09:42:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well....
Sometimes men take things the wrong way. Some are worse then others but I refuse to be on pins and needles around someone. If they don't understand my sense of humor or the way I talk and act then it's their lost. I can't change who I am because they are confused.
2007-03-04 11:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boys and guys might think that way
BUT
a gentleman respects and understands the intimacy of the touch for what it is. What is only a gesture now is to be relished and appreciated for what it could become later...at the woman's choosing of course.
The only thing you need to change is the class and intelligence level of the people you are hanging around with and meeting.
2007-03-04 09:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you probably need to change the way you approach guys. They only think one way....and I don't mean with their brain. They seem to always think a woman is coming on to them.
2007-03-04 09:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by MsKenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys would interpret yor actions that way. I try not to make such judgements just because of a casual touch....unless the touch is at my groin.
2007-03-04 09:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by afreshpath_admin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I mean, maybe you should tone it down a little in the beginning so you don't come off as loose. But after you get to know somebody, just let it all out
2007-03-04 09:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
uh, if guys keep thinking you are coming onto them when you are not, perhaps you are the one who is misinterpreting the general friendly/sexual "boundaries" you are seem to keep crossing...
2007-03-04 09:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank you! thank you! yes i like hugs but they think its me coming onto them. so now, i just nudge and say hi...i don't want to send the wrong message. i only changed because someone thought and hope it was more.
2007-03-04 09:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by kowalley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and realize the problem is not with you, but with them and how they may perceive you. Save that for those who know you well.
2007-03-04 09:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should only change if the resulting attention you get from it is unwanted.
2007-03-04 09:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by dcstang97 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would think that too but you should keep on doing it
2007-03-04 09:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋