well im 15 and ive just been reading some questions about like young preteens and teens having sex..?

Question

im 15 still a virgin never had a first kiss by a guy but i remember when i was about 6 or 7 i did flash my neighbor but never did it again i here a lot about teens and pre-teens having sex i for one dont understand why theyre doing that i wonder would i have been one of those teens having sex if it wasnt for my molestation and i think that my mom i should thank cuz shes always keeping an eye for me and i would get mad at her for always trying to be ''overprotective'' but now since im older i understand why she did it well do any older people have advice for me growing up like about dating stuff and school stuff life stuff thanks

Answer 1

I was very eager to have sex for the first time when I was your age, and I flirted with a lot of guys...guys at school, guys at the local supermarket, guys driving by in cars; it didn't matter...I let them know I was available. When I was 17, I ran into one of the guys I was always flirting with at our town's Oktoberfest. He asked me if I wanted to go for a ride in his convertable. I thought it was a really cool car, I thought he was really cool, I figured I was safe enough because I'd known him for years. I told the friends I was with that I'd be right back, and this guy took me to the local beach, took a blanket out of his car, and we laid down and started to make out. The rest of my memories are of pain, saying "NO", and him not listening. He raped me. He laughed with disbelief when he was finished and I told him that I was a virgin. He drove me back to my friends, and I never told anyone until THIS YEAR what happened to me and that was 33 years ago. I hid it for so long because I blamed myself for for the rape because I flirted with him in the supermarket and let him believe that I was willing for him to do that to me. This is what I have been telling myself. I was a 17 year old child looking for a boyfriend...he was a 26 year old man who already had one...all he wanted that night was someone to abuse.
I know at your age your hormones are telling you one thing, but your brain needs to be telling you to be reasonable. Sex is for a relationship with someone you know you can trust. Young people your age think they are ready for all of its stresses, but believe me, you are not. Finding a boyfriend and innocent kisses often lead to things that you don't really want to happen...like teen pregnancy.
Your mom is right in looking out for your best interests since you've already suffered once. Wait until you find that right person you know for sure you can trust, and don't worry about how old you are...15 is very young. My son is in his twenties and is currently looking for a special person. I'm not saying that he is a virgin, but I do know that he has said that he is not going to "just" have sex with "just" anyone just to have sex. He has a lot of female friends who trust him, and they mean too much to him for him to ruin his relationships with them by changing things with sex. My daughter is also in her twenties and has had 2 important boyfriends because she was very selective, and is currently living with someone. She gets angry at men who approach her and flirt with her,because she can't understand why they think she would be interested.
I guess our family's values have paid off. I've been very lucky.

Answer 2

NO, never have intercourse until now marriage........that's a sin worth of dying and hell. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that, like all sins, that's forgiven by way of haith in Jesus Christ. yet undergo in strategies it would not provide you permission to sin. God will take care of ALL SINS. you will stand until now God and he will ask you why you probably did what you probably did.........and you'd be speechless in shame. God stated to Adam and Eve be fruitful as a results of fact God created the 1st marriage with Adam and EVE!!! you isn't on my own. God will never go away you nor forsake you. Wait until marriage. in the journey that your church prepare immorality, then go away the church!!!

Answer 3

You have lots of time - you'll know when you're ready.
How did you flash your neighbor when you were 7? LOL, never heard of that before.

Answer 4

was that a question?