2007-03-04 09:24:50 · 19 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I mean isn't love unconditional?
2007-03-04 09:25:06 · update #1
Human love is not unconditional. Would you still love your lover if he/she bombed a pre-school? How about if he/she started selling crack to teenagers? Some things really are deal-breakers.
Aside from such drastic falls from grace, people change over time, and this is natural. Twenty years later, you might be two very different people then when you first met and fell in love. Sometimes they continue loving each other through the changes, sometimes not. Sometimes the love grows stronger with time, other times one wakes up one day and realizes that person has become a stranger.
I know several people in my life who are enjoying their second or third marriage. I wouldn't say they were never in love with their first spouse. Sometimes it is best to admit defeat and move on instead of staying together and being miserable (and making everyone around you miserable in the process).
2007-03-04 09:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by sueflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't unconditional - at least not between people. Because people are error prone, judgements and mistakes made can permanently damage or destroy a loving relationship.
Just as love can grow, it can also decay.
2007-03-04 17:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If love disappears then It never was meant to be or was there. Now these days you got 12-16 year olds saying Oh! i am in love. But, its not true cause they don't know what it means they just think somebody is hot & like there personalty a little bit & then say there in love.
2007-03-04 17:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by London qirl . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is unconditional. So if you tell someone that you love them then later on in life you tell them you don't anymore. You didn't in the first place, you may have thought you did. But it was never there.
2007-03-04 17:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is unconditional - if it just seems to disappear, it was never there.
2007-03-04 17:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by ra63 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes but people fall oout of love or into love with others and people change. love is unconditional but people aren't always
2007-03-04 17:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by mbs4174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a lie perpetrated by chimpanzees. It's all part of their plot to rise to number one. Don't believe the hype!
2007-03-04 17:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by your attorney 7.0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but people change with time and nothing is always a guarantee in life .
2007-03-04 17:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it was ever there. it is supposed to be unconditional. good luck.
2007-03-04 17:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
true love lasts forever even if it isnt the same as when it started
2007-03-04 17:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋