2007-03-04 09:24:09 · 24 answers · asked by yorikoanno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's selfish, piggish, and child molesting. Sorry if it offends you. Just my opinion.
2007-03-04 09:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that the 14 year span is so bad, it's the fact that you're 17 and he's a 31 year old looking for a young piece.
He's probably promising you the world. He has a good job (hopefully) and probably a wife (hopefully--he's still not with her) that he left his kids with for someone younger.
I know....he says he loves you...you're the best thing he's ever had...he loves you more than anyone in the whole world...they all do. If he loves you so much--stop the sex for a month or two and see if he still loves you.
If he does then wait til your 25 before you date him again.
25 and 39 sounds better than 17 and 31.
2007-03-04 10:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a man dates a younger girl he tends to be controlling, and even possessive. A 31 year old maybe thinking about settling down adn having kids which a 17 year old not ready for. Personally, I think its disgusting and another to use somebody who don't no any better.
2007-03-04 10:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt think it was rape when those young guys got it on with their hot teachers and contrary to popular opinion i dont see every 17 year old girl as not ready for sex.
especially the way our society views sex
why do women spend countless hours watching trampy **** like sex and the city and force that **** down a young girls throat like a nasty internet video and then get all weird when she wants to have a little casual sex.
all that is assuming you arent tricking her by acting like you're gonna have some r-ship based on anything other than casual sex. cuz sorry bro but her friends arent gonna be hanging out with you and nobody else is going to accept it the way you want it.
i think that women get so irate because of jealousy and the simple fact that no man in his right mind is going to view some flabby, lazy, mouthy "been there, done that" type of woman as more attractive than your physically fit 17 year old hottie who still likes men and can actually be on top for more than 32 seconds and may occasionally be willing to do so.
i wouldnt risk it, and i have a gf to whom im faithful. but if i was single and it was legal id date any woman that i was attracted to so long as she was physically mature, and mentally mature enough to understand what a no strings attached r-ship is about.
if i remember right none of the girls i dated from the time i was 15 to 18 wanted much more than sex, and i dont see how it really changes much that i was a teenager instead of a dirty old man when i gave them the most mediocre 4 minutes of their lives.
i guess most guys would be sol too if women could go after the 17 soccer player at their local park instead of the controlling psychos they usually have to sort through b4 resorting to a bowl of ice cream, a vibrator and a soap opera for their sexual fulfillment.
2007-03-04 09:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by THEMENACE47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the 31-yr. old man should wait until the 17yr. old girl is of age. Because this action is illegal, and the man could get in a lot of trouble because of this act, if the parents of the girl do not approve. Well i hope this answer helps you.
2007-03-04 09:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn it around.
What do you think of about a 17 year old girl dating a 31 year old man?
2007-03-04 09:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its crazy, what could the two of you have in common. (SEX).......... Ask yourself some questions first and you will have your answer.
Example............
#1. Why would I I be insterested in a CHILD??
# 2. Do I have a fear of being rejected by women my own age, or Do I suffer form sexual inadequates and need the approval of an inexperienced child.
# 3. If I had a 17 year old daughter would I except her 31 year old boyfriend, or would I have him charged with statutory rape.
no offense intended..... just my opinion
2007-03-04 09:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Divina Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the 31 year old man? Find someone your own age. Chris Hansen wants to talk to you.
2007-03-04 09:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by andy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its pretty nasty and i think that person needs to be in jail, i think its perverted and you need to hit your knees and pray to god for forgiveness and leave that little girl alone, what the heck do you a 31 year old man have in common with a 17 year old little girl???? nithing at all, you need help if she was my daughter you would be in prison
2007-03-04 09:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking he has some SERIOUS issues. He has nothing in common with a girl that young and is simply wanting one thing from her and once she becomes dependent on him, he will be out the door, looking for someone new.
2007-03-04 09:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by Aiden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that ur pimpin' (lol) got to give u ur props but at the same time NERSTY cuz u can be dat girls father 2 u need 2 stop b4 u wind up in jail and trust me you'll regret it plus thats a sin
2007-03-04 09:33:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋