i am sometimes shy 2 talk 2 my crush even though he is my friend....i want to talk 2 him more but sometimes a little shy even though sometimes i do talk....help????
2007-03-04 09:17:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just think of him as a friend. Then talk to him. Get over your fears, and see what happens.
2007-03-04 09:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its never easy to confront or talk to your crush! I remember it took me 2 years before I came around and even said "hello" to my crush. By then, the person had gotten married and had a kid! LOL. So I guess what I'm saying is don't wait for that opportunity. Take it by the horns and go for it. Whats the worst that could happen? Strike up a convo with him. Find out what he likes. SOmetimes its hard esp if they both of you have never really talked before. But a good ice breaker is by joining in on a group convo and striking something up there! Thats the best and easiest way. If you know some things that he likes I.E. tv shows or something along those lines, than you can go ahead and start talking about something you both like (or he likes, w/e.) Just be yourself and maintain your cool. Boys can sense such things! lol. First introductions are always important so make sure your being yourself and comfortable. Its not so bad once you get going. Awkward at first maybe. But it gradually gets easier. Go for it!
2007-03-04 10:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by tekno_rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind that he probably wants to see whats really inside you, and if you guys are friends, you might not have a lot to lose in the first place. dont sweat about it, and make small talk, and he might pick up from there
2007-03-04 10:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he somehow exposed his flaws to you, you might hold him on less of a pedistal. If you saw him do something senslessly mean, stupid, you might be less afraid of him. If you got intimate together, that would also break the ice.
2007-03-04 09:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by St. Toad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should just realize that everybody is that way.
If somebody can't deal with you trying to overcome it, then that is their problem. They have problems of their own to overcome.
2007-03-04 09:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋