yesterday my mom and her bf went out of town so they left me in charge of the house and my 2 brothers. well i wanted to throw a party so i did. now the house is all messed up and thers like trash everywhere. should i just make my brothers clean it up. or just leave it for my mom when she gets home. she comes home in like 4 hrs. and im not cleaning it, im not some maid.
2007-03-04 09:16:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
wat do u people understand that im not gonan clean it. i that is not my thing to go cleaning things.
2007-03-04 09:26:16 · update #1
lol my mom can try and ground me but the very next day she gives into me and gives everything back. so i could care less if she found out about this party or not.
2007-03-04 09:59:55 · update #2
Emawee, I agree you have one of two choices
1) make your brothers clean it - and tell them they had better do it well
2) leave it for your mom and boyfriend to clean up - and tell them your brothers made the mess
Either is fine as long you don't actually clean a thing.
2007-03-04 09:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 2⤊ 8⤋
Okay, close your eyes and imagine that you have a nice house of your own, nice carpets and things. One day you leave for a while and someone comes in and makes a mess.
How would that feel?
If you had the party and your friends made a mess, then YOU should clean it up.
If I were your mother I would make sure you did it. There would be no TV, no phone, no computer games, no spare time to do anything you wanted, until it was cleaned up.
Only an irresponsible, immature child is incapable of cleaning up their own mess and expects other to do it because she can't.
Grow up - thank heavens I'm not your Mom!
My kids were good, decent kids who had morals and values.
Shame on you for having a party in the first place, and shame on you for expecting your parents to clean up your filth.
2007-03-04 16:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,you still have not learned from your actions.You get punishments because of your actions.You are not making wise choices.You are mature enough,you just do not want to.Well,I am sorry but i do not feel sorry for you.You wanted the party,which more than likely your parent(s) would not approve of.They wrecked your mothers home,not your home you are not 18 and you are under her roof and you need to abide by her rules.Now,you must act responsibly.It isnt that hard,and it doesnt mean you are a maid if you clean up something that was caused by you,or a mess you made.You threw this party,it is your responsibility to clean up after it.It isnt hard to clean it up at all just takes a bit of time.Its a start at being independant,which i am sure you want to be one day.It starts with being responsible,reguardless as to how old you are.Be the bigger person here and help your mother out for once.You do not do it often as i have seen some of your previous questions.Good luck hun,and have a good night and grow up.
2007-03-04 09:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
UMM HELLO, you are the one that threw the party meaning that anything that happened during it such as your house being trashed was your responsibility therefor YOU are the one that is going to clean the mess up, do not try and get your brothers or mom to clean up something that was done because of something you did.
Your not no maid? So your mom and brothers are? You chose to throw the party not them so why should they have to clean up from a party they had nothing to do with?
You chose to throw the party , if you did not want to deal with a mess then you should not hae thrown it. Everyone knows that every time you throw a party your house gets messy.
If I were your mom I would ground you for throwing the party in the first place and if you asked me to clean it up I would ground you even longer and yes you would still be cleaning the mess up.
The only thing you can really do is ask your brothers nicely if they will help you clean up , if they refuse then oh well, sucks for you.
I really suggest you have no more parties until you grow up and take responsibility for what happens at the party.
Lori is a idiot and I suggest not listening to her, trust me if you lie eventually the truth will come out, one of your parents are sure to slip up and mention the party infront of one of your parents and if that happens your going to face even longer punishment for lying.
2007-03-04 09:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
You aren't asking us to volunteer to clean up are you? WE weren't even asked to the party?Was it you who said your mom's boyfriend should clean up after HIS dog.Follow your own advice, clean up after YOUR party. By the way, the people who you think of as your friends have no respect for your home if they left it like that.For the record your mom isn't the maid either.Next thing you'll tell us is you do this same stunt at your friends house. The way you talk and behave I wouldn't leave you in charge of anything because you lack the maturity for that kind of responsibility.Maturity requires the ability to make good choices.
2007-03-05 02:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had the party. You made the mess. You clean it up.
It's not your mom's job (or your brothers') to clean up after you. Stop being so spoiled and learn to take some responsibility for your actions.
2007-03-08 01:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly all I have to say is wow. Why on earth would your mom leave you in charge of the house with you acting the way you do? "I'm not some maid" I'm expecting you're going to be when you're older if you don't straighten the hell up. You need Jesus Christ in your life hun. Terribly Should you clean up the mess? To answer your question honey yes you should.
2007-03-04 09:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont make your brothers clean it. it is not their fault your lazy they didnt throw the party just leave the mess soo that when your mom comes you can get grounded and she wont trust anymore and you will still clean the mess that stubborness is not gonna get you any where you should think about that the next time if there is a next time
2007-03-04 09:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Tabitha A 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Make it look like it did when ur mother left - if it is to clean then she sill know that something is up and if it looks like there was a party then she will know and you might get grounded or something. Call some of your friends that were at the party, they might help you.
2007-03-04 09:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah and like I enjoy ever cleaning? You probably never will, but grow up girl, clean the house, your the one who threw a party, and your mom aint a maid either.
2007-03-04 09:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
umm if you through the party you have a few options
1) just clean up the freaking mess
2) blame it on your brothers, this probably wont work
3) dont do anything
ok in both number two and three you will get in hige trouble. best sit for 2 is that you get in trouble for not pitching in if they didnt clean up, worse sit- your mom realizes its your party and you get grounded for ever. only one option for sit three you get in a lot of trouble, like cant go to any partys for the rest of the year
basically just clean it up
2007-03-04 09:52:05 · answer #11 · answered by Monkey Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋