2007-03-04 09:07:44 · 14 answers · asked by long_horn_2468 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her about it. tell her it makes you uncomfortable that she flirts with him. does she even realize she's flirting? some girls have such a habit they don't realize they do it. does your boyfriend flirt back? if he does then talk to him about it too. tell him it breaks your heart when he flirts with other girls. that it makes you feel like you're not the number one girl in his life. if your friend respects your friendship, she'll back off. if your boyfriend respects your relationship he'll back off. if they keep flirting then something might be going on between them behind your back. so, just talk to them about it and let them know how you feel. don't accuse them of anything because it might make them lie or feel guilty even if they haven't done anything. be calm and good luck!
2007-03-04 09:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your bestfriend she would not do that to you. You need to talk to her in a nice way so you guys will not argue, explain to her your feelings on her flirting with your boyfriend.
And also talk to your boyfriend on not flirting back, because he could make her flirt even more and that will make both of the wrong, an you may have to leave them both alone.
But still you should be concern about your bestfriend flirting with someone you go with, she not showing you any type of respect at all, and do not let her tell you that is just the way she is, she knows when it is not a cause to flirt and to play with someone's boyfriend.
please let me know what happen, I hope it turns out well for you.
2007-03-04 17:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop. Call her or something, and say: You know you're my best friend and I care about you, but you flirt with my boyfriend. Please stop.
If she doesn't stop after that, then she isn't your best friend. Calling her is sorta like a warning. Good luck!
2007-03-04 17:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could talk to her and let her know because she might not notice that she is doing it! She might back off a little bit it might just be how she acts towards the guys!
2007-03-04 17:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by luh luh la reee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first u cant just jump staight into the conflict u should really sit an think things over to urself and then get urself together then should sit down and talk to ur best friend and see wat really happen and then u take things 4rom there dont just get angry at ur bestfreiend cuz probably she guilty as he is and she probably sorry so just think and use ur mind dont follow ur heart in this situation
2007-03-04 17:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to back off! She shouldn't be messing with him! I would slap her but I'm not you....... But if tat doesn't work confront your boyfriend about ur friend and see if he has any interest in her at all! wish hapineness and good luck!
2007-03-04 17:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by lollife29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st your boyfriend should turn her off if he is a gentleman, he should be letting her know he is not interested, your getting to know him in this situation.
2nd I do not think she is your friend or is she jealous of your boyfriend
If this has been going on for awhile they both have let you down in my book
2007-03-04 17:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by CanDo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick that friend to the curb plain and simple.
2007-03-04 17:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your best friend.
2007-03-04 17:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by niddlie diddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her i know whats shes doing and she needs to back off.
2007-03-04 17:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by dannys girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋