her right now.....He was 40...it's a mess....long story short, I am very lucky and other than grandparents have not lost anyone that way...any suggestions??.......Anything would be helpful, I want to call her (we don't live near eachother at all any more)...are there any words or thoughts that have comforted you in the past?......thanks guys....
2007-03-04 09:06:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You guys are great.....thanks.....funny but basically you all said the same thing...and I am sorry for your losses....I WILL be there for her...and again, thanks....
2007-03-05 01:15:06 · update #1
The only thing you can do is be there for her. Just being there for hear when she gets ready to talk means the most. It may take her a while but in times like this we brake down sooner or later and need that shoulder to cry on. When I lost my daddy it took a while to realize that it was real. when the crowd of family and Friends was gone i needed the people most close to me, just to hear me talk, hear me cry, and help me work through the anger. and this are all parts of grief Just be there.
2007-03-04 09:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by sandy.d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
clarify to her that wintry climate is coming up and skinny people somewhat go through with the chilly. tell her you care approximately her too lots to verify her be in any style of misery. Then take a seat back and smile on an analogous time as she thank you you profusely for saving her from what could have been a great mistake. according to danger she'll even flow out and purchase you some rings as a manner of asserting thank you, and additionally you be attentive to, she somewhat could desire to pondering you have additionally saved her from having to flow out and purchase all new outfits.
2016-10-17 06:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by farraj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that you wanted her to know that she is in your thoughts and prayers, and that you know she is going through a really hard time right now. You may also say something like, "Remember every time you look up at a star, your brother is up in heaven looking down on you....".
I have lost way too many people in my life, and the only thing that gets me through is time, and knowing that there are more angels in heaven now....
lisa :)
2007-03-04 09:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know your there for her ,there is no rite or wrong thing to say ,just let her know ,your thinking of her in her time of need .IF There is everything you can do for her ,Just the call ,might make her feel a little better.
2007-03-04 09:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by colliedogcody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you will be there for her if she needs to talk! To me it doesnt really help when people say their sorry its like it makes me even more upset!! just be there for her and that is about all you can do!
2007-03-04 09:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by luh luh la reee! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you feel really bad about what happened and that your sorry. Tell her that you are always there for her and that you are willing to help her if she needs help. Try to comfort her and try to make her not to think of it as much. It worked for me when one of my friends died.
2007-03-04 09:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Maddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. Seeing as how you've never been in the same situation, just sympathize for her. Tell her you're sorry, and you're here for her if she needs anything.
2007-03-04 09:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never say sorry i hate when ppl told me that after my dad died say u will aloways love her and shes ur best friend and u r alaway ready to talk
2007-03-04 09:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say you are sorry and tell her that you are there for her whenever she needs you.
2007-03-04 09:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just walk up and hug her. Maybe all she needs is somebody to lean on.
2007-03-04 09:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by King John dragon-slayer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋